Hi, long time follower here (34M). How does anyone actually make ABDL friends? I don’t care if they are in person or online, just friends. Someone I can talk to about diapers, being in the community and other things like board games, dnd, mtg. Just…ugh… sorry for the venting.

Here is the scenario, I love my wife (36F) she supports my AB side and even encourages it. However, she feels guilty about the fact that she doesn’t want to participate, I’ve told her time and time again that she doesn’t have to. We have a mutual understanding I don’t hide it. Our relationship is very healthy.

I just want someone I can be friends with in the community, nothing crazy. Every time I have tried though, they just stop talking to me, not sure why honestly. It just gets frustrating. I don’t know what the solution is. I don’t really have events near me that I can tell, so I have to resort to online and it’s getting more and more discouraging. I don’t want to spam mommy’s, the fakes, the people who just want to get off to diaper pics. Just a real friend…. Rant over…