I've had ABDL interests and explored this side of me much of my life, but have struggled to make lasting connections with others in the community and locally for play. I think it's remained so personal because I fluctuate often in my comfort with this part of myself. I'm looking to connect with others, especially close to the SF Bay Area, finally come out of my shell, and be comfortable hanging and sharing in littlespace.

I've put out some of these in the past looking for a partner to help develop this in an intimate context, but right now I'm mostly looking for friends and non-sexual play. I'm currently in a committed LTR with a woman who's accepting but not really interested in participating, so I'm looking for someone, especially with similar interests, with whom I can enter into littlespace or at least just be comfortable diapered out with another person. I would also be open to someone more on the caregiver / disciplinarian side, but this would have to be entered into delicately so my partner feels comfortable. Most likely this role would be best filled by a someone identifying male for this reason, but the right woman or a couple could be good as well.

As far as interests: I'm a big music fan and enjoy going out to concerts and finding bars and cafes with live music. Indie rock, alternative, electronic, folk and folk rock, and bluegrass are some favorites, but I'd be open to others and am just excited it's retuning! I enjoy hiking and biking, finding places to taste good beer or wine, and I'm a casual gamer, but can really get into it with the right game. But overall, if our personalities match up and we just spend time doing little stuff together like watching cartoons and color that's great! I'm also 420 friendly, but not into anything harder.

Anyway, hopefully the right person(s) takes interest who can help me accept and let out my inner little!

Rye