Just kiddin, let me bring it down about 75 notches now that I’ve got your attention in this sea of strange.

I’m looking to connect with a switchy lady type between the ages of 26-40. Open to go over that age range, especially if you can match my level of constant joking, or have a solid career.

About me, im 33, 5’9”, slim/athletic build, male presenting, genderfluid, and a true switch. I’ve been a part of the scene for over a decade now. I have worked past the point of being embarrassed about being kinky and sex positive, but I keep the devilish detail of age play prettyyy pretyyyyy private. I have a successful career with a healthy work life balance, and the financial means to live life to the fullest.

On the dom side I enjoy doting on my little, servicing, setting rules, providing gentle care, and delivering strict punishments. Impact, forced regression, bondage, edging - anything that makes her squirm, beg, and relent. My submissive side nearly mirrors this list, but with the addition of forced feminization, and pegging. I'm mostly straight for women, but i've recently explored bisexuality with some degree of success and pleasure.

As for vanilla interests, I'm into 80s horror/scifi, disc golf, cycling, DJing, vinyl records, live music, dancing, sports, travel, and games of all kinds. I get super passionate about things I'm interested in, and can easily feel the gravity of a friend or partners excitement about their passions. If you're pumped about something, it's likely going to make me pumped about it. I absolutely love sharing knowledge and skills.

In conclusion I’m looking for a partner that not only accepts and/or shares these kinks, but can hold a good conversation with a solid display of interest and empathy. Someone who is both seeks personal growth, continued education, and happiness in their own life. I’m very satisfied with what I’ve built for myself. I’d love to bring someone else in to share this fantastic life, and, I do hope, to enhance their life in ways they they too desire and deserve.