What I'm looking for:

-Howdy! I am looking for someone to build a genuine relationship eventually irl with, that lives in Midwest, the closer to Iowa the better. I know from experience the Midwest is kinda a desert when it comes to this stuff. Why I'm not opposed to a little further out. Looking for someone that can bond over some common interests but still different enough it's not like dating yourself. I am kinda old school when it comes to building a friendship/relationship. I value getting to know someone as a friend first then seeing where things go. I've been looking for a bit and while I've talked to a lot of great people over the years still looking for the one, so I understand this is process and not in any rush at this point.

The DL side of ABDL is what I'm most interested in, but very curious and open to exploring anything within reason. I am very open minded with a very adventurous spirit.

Why I'm different:

-This is one thing I've thought about a bunch since for a guy it's uphill climb in this community since it seems the guys outweigh the girls (Or at least they are more vocal, and the creeps give the honest ones a bad name). From reading through and talking with a lot of people on here over the years here what I think sets me apart is Stability, Honesty, Transparency. I think also that I'm looking for long term friendship/relationship approach not something short term. Also looking for something that doesn't constantly resolve around abdl, while I'm into some aspects of it, it's only a small part of me and not my main focus in life.

A little bit about me:

-There's some stat out there that gets thrown around that less 3% of men in the US are over 6ft and make over 100K. Not sure how true that stat is but I'm sure the percent that fit that, that are into abdl is very very low. Looks wise I'm a hair over 6ft about average to fit build with as active as I try to be, but still very geeky in my appearance. Brown hair, blue eyes, glasses. Definitely not a 10 but never considered to be ugly by others.

I work in a career that I grown to love, a little stressful at times but pays enough and give me enough time to enjoy other things. Hobbies wise I'm kinda all over the place, growing up I had a lot of different friends and different phases so they all kinda wore off on me in different aspects. I am super into the outdoors love being out and about in nature. That includes stuff like fishing, hiking, camping, backpacking, golf, running, etc. I also love music, play many different instruments that I've picked up over the years. As much I love to be out and about with friends or outside, on the flip I enjoy sitting at home putting on a good movie/tv show or cuddling up with a good book just as much. Also love taking in the simple things like a good craft beer or a good cup of coffee.

If any of this has peaked your interest or anything jumped out don't be afraid to shoot me a message!