Hello,

I’m about to turn 36, which means I am officially into my “Daddy arc.” I’ve held this fetish before I was even old enough to know what a fetish was. Making it kind of “Freudian,” I would say… I’m less interested in the “AB” aspects; leaning more towards the “DL.” Hence the title. And while I do not want to wear, I want to find someone who does. Even better if you don’t want to actually use them. Although, I could make an exception if wetting is your thing. Anything else is a hard limit.

I have other kinks, but this one is unfulfilled. It might stay that way, too. Which, I’m at peace with. But, I figured I would try. It’s a niche fetish, which means being relegated to searching through niche communities. Understandably, it might raise an eyebrow. I don’t want to have to explain why I hold such a kinky disposition to a partner. Rather, it’s a mutual, private kink between us. One that I don’t care for anyone to know about.

Again, it’s not an end-all, be-all situation for me. But, a kind of “cherry on top” for other things I’m looking for. Which is basically a “traditional,” monogamous relationship. I want to be worthy of your affection and vice-versa. Hopefully, a woman like this lurks here. I have a libido, but I am trying to not let that be the driving factor of this writing. If you’re interested, I would rather speak in private.

I am not in a position where it could be a 24/7 dynamic. Sometimes I do things with family, you know? I need someone who can feign “normalcy” when the situation calls. Therefore, I need someone who is to a certain degree a “mature” person. I tend to lead a life free of drama. I am highly resistant to anyone who would complicate my life in ways I find unreasonable.

I try to do things that an adult man should do. I work and maintain a job with a decent salary. I keep in shape by working out often. I keep my finances in shape. I have a couple hobbies that I am passionate about and pursue on the regular. Specifically art and music. I have a reasonable living situation that I can explain, in private, in greater detail. A farm in the middle of nowhere with a solid internet connection. I’ve met woman who are not into the following: I am 5’9” and I shave my head. I am at peace if that’s a dealbreaker. I actually hope you have standards, as I do too. My resolution for 2025 is get into the best shape of my life. Please tell me yours to make sure you’ve actually read this ad.

If we are a match in the many aspects of life that are so crucial for a relationship, this fetish will shape up naturally. I am definitely more on the soft-side as far as “vanilla” domineering aspects go. I am not stern, but, attempt to maintain a certain level of discipline. It’s a plight and it can unravel easy. My 20’s were a little wild and I’ve spent my 30’s trying to become a “productive” adult. That means not smoking. That means not being an alcoholic.

That’s enough to share for now. Enough to scratch the surface of whether I might be a good match for you. If you decide to message me, please tell me at least a little bit about yourself.