Hi there,

I’m Matt, a 30-year-old from Kentucky. I’m polyamorous and happily married, and we date separately with full transparency and consent. I’m here looking for a meaningful relationship.

About me: I’m caring, kind, attentive, and affectionate—someone who values deep connections. I’ve tried to keep things playful and approachable in the past, but I’m ready to be upfront and honest about who I am and what I’m looking for.

A few things you should know:

My Eyes, qnd its sad i have to say this off the bat: Yes, there’s something unique about them—I was born this way. I’m legally blind and very nearsighted, but I can still see. I’ve heard everything from “they’re creepy” to “they’re beautiful.” They’re just… me. Yes, this means I can't drive. But I can still travel and fly as needed.

Personality: I’m very affectionate and sentimental. Romantic touch, cuddles, holding hands, and sweet nicknames mean a lot to me. I get excited easily, form attachments quickly, and I’m open about my feelings. I know this intensity isn’t for everyone, but for the right person, it’s a feature, not a flaw.

Communication: I value open, clear communication. If there’s an issue, let’s talk about it—I’m all about working together to make things better.

The best match for me would be someone patient, understanding, and comfortable with physical and verbal affection. Bonus points if you’re also adventurous, spontaneous, and willing to make time for meaningful connection. I'm not asking you to be glued to your phone all day. But there is a difference between being attentive and being on your phone all day. You can still build meaningful connection and be attentive, but not be glued to your phone. It's the effort and intention that makes the difference.

A few more fun facts:

I work two work-from-home jobs, so I’m awake from 8 a.m. to 1 a.m. If you’re a night owl or love late-night chats (text or voice), we’ll get along great!

I’m a caregiver type who loves making my partner feel cherished. I enjoy giving affection, being playful, and creating moments of joy together.

I’m a big fan of Disney, theme parks, and cruising. Planning adventures and traveling make me incredibly happy.

What I’m looking for: Effort and communication are crucial to me. Whether we talk all day or just check in a few times, I want to feel like a priority, not an afterthought. If you love dressing up for special outings or enjoy spontaneous adventures, we’ll be a great fit.

So, where should our first adventure be? And what snacks are we bringing?

When you message me, say more than just “Hi” or “Hru.” I’d love to hear your thoughts and what excites you about getting to know me!