I am going to preface this immediately with saying I am NOT looking for anything romantic. If you're messaging me with romantic intent then save us both the trouble. You'll just be setting me up for failure and yourself up for heart break and that's bad for both of us.

This is long. I'm really sorry to anyone with attention span issues.

Okay, with said ugly disclaimer out of the way, as the title says: I am seeking a little or middle between the ages of 20-30 who is looking for an adopted older sibling to engage in CG/l activities in a safe environment. I might be okay with someone 18-19, but that'll be on a case by case basis. I'll also consider 31-34 on a case by case basis, but we might have a lot less in common than you think we will. Applicants with real life siblings, older or younger, are also welcome to apply.
This will not be romantic, but it can and will be affectionate if that is what is mutually agreed upon. I do not want to be a daddy or be addressed as daddy, nor will I take the full role as a daddy.
I will, as your big brother, tease you about random funny quirks in a non-harmful way and expect to be teased in return. I will avoid things you or I find extremely triggering, good vibes only, let's have fun. I will remind you, if you ask me to, of something very important, but I am not here to manage your day to day life.
I'll help you with small or big things, but it's your responsibility to ask me to help you. I'm not going to nag you about tasks or daily life needs. I'm not going to make rules or administer punishments.
I'll hang out with you and spend time with you when available. Think of this as a higher level friendship with some extra fun benefits you wouldn't get otherwise.
This is a good role for someone who's looking for something CG/l, but wants to be more independent without feeling tied down. If further into the future 18-24 months, we find we're really in tune, we can explore a roommate arrangement.
Warning: If you send me something cute you want to buy, there is a very strong chance I will encourage you to buy it instead of telling you to be a responsible adult. My role here isn't to run your life, it's not to make your decisions for you. You are in charge of these things.

If we find out we really vibe with each other and we're comfortable, we can move into more NSFW territory, but it's not necessary. This can include kinks that are appealing, including, but not limited to: CG/l, dark age play, pet play, sadism/masochism, bondage, so on. I am a top and I do not bottom, so if this is something you're interested in keep that in mind for the sake of compatibility.
If NSFW becomes a topic, I'll definitely want to have an idea of what makes you tick on a slightly deeper level. I don't need to know the how or why, I just need to know the what. Trust and aftercare are priorities, I play rough, I'm 6'3 and around 215 pounds, so it's really easy to hurt people. Knowing your limits is important, I want you to bend, not break. Tell me about drinks or food you like, or possible activities that help get that dopamine flowing.
Disclaimer: Mkay, so IF this goes into NSFW territory, please be either female or strongly feminine presenting. I'm bi, but I have a preference for more feminine individuals, I'm sorry to the hard core masculine crowd.

I am 420 and alcohol friendly if you're also interested in that, then great, be warned I do smoke so if you're against smoking I'm not for you. I'm also exploring edibles.

Dos and don'ts:

Do:

• come over to my house, sit on my floor, and engage in some little activity while I do my own activity. If you want me to do it with you, ask. I'm more than happy to engage with you directly, but if you don't ask I'll assume you're fine.
  
• Send me memes and silly things via text or a messaging platform. This includes cute animals. Please, by all means, spam me with cute animals.
• Play video games with me if you like that sort of thing. Games include, but are not limited to: Stardew valley, minecraft, Genshin impact. I don't play league or MMO shooters. I greatly enjoy multiplayer platformers, select racers, and puzzle games.
  
• If you enjoy board games or card games, we can play those too, but my selection due to space limitation is pretty sad right now, so keep your expectations of that moderated.
  
• Buy me gifts on my birthday. I'll 100% buy you something on yours.
  
• Send me dumb jokes that are absolutely not funny. I'll return the favor.
  
• Take me out for lunch or dinner once in a while or go to a fun place for a few hours or a day. I'll 100% return whatever you put in, including, but not limited to: meals, picnics, fun activities, accompany you to a kink event, and so on.
  
• Partake in cannabis or alcohol with me.
  
• Binge watch tv or movies with me.
  
• Cook/bake food in order to binge games or tv.
  
• Voice/video call if a physical visit isn't in the cards some days.
  
• Come over to my house and have a sleep over.
  
• Address me with nick names that are equivalent to an elder sibling.
• Tell me what nick names I can address you as that might be equivalent to a younger sibling or that you're comfortable being called.
  
• Please be local to Edmonton Alberta. A reasonable distance outside of Edmonton is okay, but you're responsible for your own transportation, seeing as I don't drive right now I won't be travelling that far on my own. I'm limited by local transit.

Don't:

• Call me daddy. I am NOT your daddy. I do not want to BE a daddy. I am NOT a daddy. The title of daddy in any way or form is a hard limit.
  
• Expect me to take control of your life and make your decisions for you. This is a hard limit. I do not want to be responsible for your life choices. I am not your boy friend, I am your best friend with fun and or kinky benefits. I am open to listening to a problem you might be having and providing you with advice, but I will not tell you what to do.
  
• Message me with the intent of bad mouthing someone else behind their back. That kind of behavior is vile and should be universally condemned. If you want to trash talk someone, go do it with someone else.
  
• Engage with ANYTHING NSFW or kink if you are in a monogamous relationship. I have absolutely no desire to be your dirty little secret and I will NOT help you cheat. If you're in a relationship and you want NSFW you need to be poly and your partner needs to be fully aware and consent. This applies to people who are single and seek to enter a relationship with another individual at a later point.
  
• Diapers are acceptable, but I will NOT be changing diapers. You mess, you clean. A daddy I am not.
  
• Please don't be outside of Edmonton, Alberta. I don't drive and am limited to local transit, so local is a necessity if we're to regularly hang out.
• Please don't just send me a message with only hey, I will ignore you. The minimum message should include your age, gender, location, and a small paragraph about yourself (whatever you're comfortable sharing) and or what we may or do have in common.