Hi there! I'm Xander.

I'm a friendly, smart, and attractive guy who loves to joke around and make people smile. I'm open-minded and a great listener—I want you to feel comfortable being your authentic self with me. I love traveling, singing (yes, I’ll sing you a lullaby), hiking, gaming, animation, acting, music, and anything to do with animals. Hearing about people's passions and interests makes me happy, so I’m always down to chat about what lights you up.

Daddy Side

I'm all about cuddles, hugs, kisses, and compliments! I love taking care of my baby girl and indulging all her little fantasies. I'm sweet and silly, always looking to make you smile and laugh. Whether you're in little space or tackling big girl things, I'll provide the guidance and wisdom you need.

Good girls & brats are welcome but I love a mix of both. It’s the most fun when I can shower you with affection and put you in your place if you’re out of line. You'll get a warning or two but if you still don't listen, you can bet you'll be punished. I love coming up with new ideas to help you enjoy your littleness to the fullest, and if you're into rules, great.

Little Side

I'm a super bubbly boy who just wants to cling to his mama like a little monkey. I like being silly and saying things only a baby or toddler would and asking kid questions cause I'm so curious about the world and want mama to teach me. 'why da juice orange?' 'does milk turn you into a grown up?'.

I like being teased and getting embarrassed for being so little and needing to be taken care of cause I can't do much on my own. I might say I'm a big boy sometimes even though I know deep down I'm too scared to do big boy things. I'm not ready to give up my paci or diapees but I'm big enough to know I'll need to eventually and want to seem like I'm brave. My little age is 2-4! I don't normally regress younger because I like to be chatty. Babies who don't say anything aren't as fun for mama.

Some of my Kinks (Not a dealbreaker if some of these don't apply to you)

Diapers/Pullups, Diaper-related roleplaying, Ageplay/Regression, Humiliation, Holding, Spanking, Public Play, bondage, CNC. Curious about booty stuff but never tried

Looking For
Looking for AFAB ABDL play partners but if we really click, would be open to a long-term relationship. If you're strictly non-sexual, this isn't for you. I enjoy the sexual & non-sexual aspects of ABDL so want the people I chat with to feel the same. I'm in the New York/New Jersey area so would be cool to meet someone close, but I'm always willing to travel or host so doesn't matter where you are. Only thing I don't want is online only, fine if it starts that way at first but eventually I'd want to meet up.

Your First Message
Tell me a bit about yourself, as a person & little/mommy. It's much easier to hit it off if I know a bit about you from the start, so we can jump right into the fun stuff without a bunch of initial questions.

Thanks for reading all that! If you liked it, I'm looking forward to your message because I think we'd have lots of fun :)