The person I thought I was going to spend my life with recently ended our five year relationship and engagement out of nowhere. I'm not looking for anything serious. I'm well-adjusted and therefore not falling to pieces, but I don't have a ton to give emotionally at the moment.

Though I was open about my kinks, my ex-partner was very vanilla, and did not enjoy participating very much. I'm mostly I'm looking for someone to be around and interact with while I'm in ABDL space in a way that enhances the experience. "Play partner" is a close phrase but doesn't quite capture what I'm looking for.

I would describe myself as a switch whose interests are, in order, diapers, bedwetting, feminization play, and pegging. I enjoy all of these on either the Dom or sub side of a dynamic. I'm not interested in a physical relationship in the near future, though it isn't off the table if there's mutual attraction and trust built up over time.

When it comes to ageplay, I'm not super into it. There are elements of it that appear in my fantasy space (too old to be a bedwetter, usually in the "early teens" space, and that cascades into a total potty failure), but it isn't central at all. Though I've tried in the past, I'm lacking when it comes to the Top side of ageplay.

I am looking for fem presentation – that includes women, transwomen, and sissies/femboys/crossdressers/etc. That said, If your "label" is central to your personality, we're not going to get along; I'm interested in people, not their boxes.

I have my own place, keep a clean house, and have a good career that I'm willing to discuss in private. I'm healthy, physically fit, and I touch grass. I'm looking for someone similar. I prefer to keep my ABDL life inside the walls.

Please be semi-local. If it takes more than three hours to drive, I'm not interested. I have plenty of online friends who are ABDL friendly already.

As a conversation starter – what did you spend most of your time doing last week when you weren't working?

Looking forward to getting to know you.