I've always loved the ddlg and abdl dynamic as a carer or Dom but have tried to 'supress' it over the years and move on, as it were, worried about people misunderstanding it. But now I think I'd like to explore it again. I love the way it mixes affection and care with kink, in a way no other kink does. Its also frustrating that its not something you can bring up openly with people - unless they are also into it because there is a lot of potential for kinkshaming/causing offence.

If you're F under 45 and interested in an intial online friendship drop me a line :) I'm saying ideally London because who knows maybe one day there might be a chance of meeting but for now I'm just looking for online. And yep I am an E. Asian guy :) I'm also on Fetlife and have a cgl-based Finstagram I use sometimes.

(I am only searching for an F little and would like voice chat eventually so pls don't waste time if you're a guy.)