So I'm not an AB or DL but because of my urinary incontinence it has been hard to date in the past, thus I've dated a few into this as a fetish. I'm seeking a potential life partner, someone I can be myself with and not be ashamed. Physically I'm 5' 11", English/Castilian, around 240lbs, green eyes, receding light brown hair and beard (buzzed short).

I am bisexual, fiscally conservative, liberally lifestyled (closest to libertarianism) and a homebody. I speak passable German and Spanish, as well as a bit of French (I'd love to become fluent). I enjoy reading, gardening, target shooting, collecting antiques and cooking. I own and ride several vintage Japanese motorcycles (1962 Honda Cub, 1969 Honda S90, 1970 Honda CB350 and a 1978 Suzuki TS185) and am even building a 1915 Ford model T speedster (with 1931 running gear). To top it off I collect and play Atari, NES and Sega Genesis games. So yes, I'm a massive retro fiend :)

I was in an auto accident, breaking my back in 2009. I now have moderate numbness in my legs, wear a knee brace and have periodic bladder spasms. Thus making me unable to function without wearing 24/7 protection. That's quite a turn off to most, so I've dated those who were AB or DL in the past and rather enjoyed it. I enjoy Topping but tend to have to try for a while before I can orgasm. I lived a rather fun lifestyle when younger, an active member of the local kink scene, having sex with women, men, mtf and ftm; it was all fun to me.

Long drives tend to be rather painful, thus I typically only leave the house twice weekly, one as a shopping trip and the other to spend a few hours with my mother (mid stage alzheimers). I have an online CSR management position, not exciting or lucrative but nice and stable. Though that lifestyle has left me as a homebody (borderline shut in). My social life tends to be a monthly retro gaming day that I host (a few friends and my brother show up). Beer, hot dogs, burgers and gaming are a wonderful mixture.

So if you think you'd be interested in getting to know me better then just DM me. Thanks.