Hello! You can call me Jessi, a nickname I use around reddit.

I am looking for another local abdl. Friends first, then we can discuss the possibility of more. I would love someone willing to switch but have no qualms with someone who is a sub only. I do not want a dominant man. I would happily accept a dominant woman though. Otherwise open to anything dynamics-wise. CGs, littles, middles, tops, bottoms all welcome.

I am poly and have a girlfriend in her 40s. We date separately but aren't opposed to doing things together. She is very kinky as well and may one day join us for a future playdate. Although abdl isn't her thing she supports me and mommys me from time to time.

Vanilla Life: During the warmer months I love to be outside, I love to swim in lake michigan and visit a good handful of smaller local lakes. Bonfires, camping, cookouts, and gardening are the best! In the colder months I tend to stay bundled up inside more often! Send me a dm with a cat emoji so I know you've read all or most of this post! Sticking to my hobbies: writing, reading, comic books, video games, painting, jewelry making, cooking and spending time with close friends and my GF.

AB/DL Side: I am a switch, but tend to lean more sub these days. My little side tends to stick around one of two age ranges. I can be more of a diapered teenager (10-13) or more of a baby-toddler (0-6). I do like the idea of being a diapered mommy as well. I use my diapers for everything. I wear often for both sexual and non-sexual reasons. When feeling little and not particularly in a sexy mood I like to color, paint, play with toys, take naps, eat baby food, drink from bottles, watch tv or movies from my childhood or play old games.

Please take the time to read the message before you reach out. Looking for serious people who actually give a shit about other people. I want to get to know you well, become friends and plan hangouts or dates, then discuss abdl and kink more once we know it is a good fit. Please also be patient, I have a funky work schedule. I will prioritize longer messages when I have the chance to check things out. So feel free to tell me all about yourself, your passions, your life struggles, anything abdl you think I should know right away, etc in your intro.

I have some more basic info on my profile and my older posts. Thank you for reading all of this, I hope you hear from you soon!! c: