Hello there! Thanks for reading my post. As the title explains, I'm an early-30's cisgender guy in western Massachusetts, hoping to click with a (hopefully) nearby ABDL woman! I'll circle back to kink later on in this post, so you can see if you match my freak, but first a bit about myself:

• I'm a lifelong New Englander and love the region. Working class background. Lots of flannel in my closet.
• I am a "friendly introvert" - I like to banter and socialize, but need sometimes need to recharge with some solitude.
• I have a career in the area that is important to me. I generally have my shit together and am looking for someone who has theirs somewhat together as well.
• Good cook (actually)
• I have a dry, sarcastic, sometimes dark sense of humor, but I'm equally silly.
• Kind of have an alt/metalhead style going on but I promise I clean up good.
• Progressive/Left leaning
• I'm handy
• I can reach the top shelf

Some of my interests include: Bicycling, antiques, horror and fantasy, art, outdoor recreation, bad mystery novels. There's a lot more, but it feels silly to list them all.

Now the fun stuff: I've been into ABDL for as long as I can remember! It is definitely a sexual thing for me, but doesn't have to revolve around sex. I would say I lean heavily towards the "DL" side of the spectrum, but my interests are varied and I am pretty flexible to accommodate my partner's needs or desires: I get a lot of fulfillment by pleasing my partner and making them feel good. So, kink-wise, I am pretty adaptable. At this point, I have had a lot of experience with ABDL play, mainly in the daddy/dominant role. 99% of my experience engaging in ABDL play with women has been in the daddy/dom/caregiver (however you want to spin it) role, and I think that's my primary interest -- but I do enjoy wearing diapers and I am definitely open to try switching. I'm also game for a scenario where there's no power dynamic involved and we're just two grownups who have fun wearing diapers. This is all to say: I generally think of myself as a daddy type, but I'm kind of into everything. Really. I have no personal shame about my ABDL interests, but is a very private part of my life for obvious reasons. I'd like to meet someone who's in the same boat on both fronts.

As fun as kink stuff is, and while ABDL is a big and important part of my sexuality, it's very important to me that we have a connection outside of kink. I'm hoping to meet someone who I would still be into even if ABDL wasn't part of the equation.

So, if you're a woman in the area or adjacent, and you think we might have a chance at clicking, feel free to drop me a line. You might be the next one on my changing mat!