**This is strictly a monogamous relationship only. No hookups or short-term relationships, please.**

Hello hello good morning, afternoon, evening, my name is Brian and I am looking for a little/ middle girl who will become my best friend, wife, and soulmate.

Ideally, you are somewhat interested in some sort of CGlg/DDlg dynamic who can occasionally be a switch or you are a DL who is ok with being dote on and also occasionally wants to play the CG/ Mommy role. 

**About me**

I like to think of myself as kind, mostly positive, very protective, caring, and supportive of those who are close to me. I can be a little paranoid and sometimes have issues with trust. 

I always keep my promises. I can be a bit blunt/ straightforward. I also like working on myself and holding myself to high standards in everything I do.I am also fairly introverted (until I get to know someone) and don't really leave the house unless I have to (l am a bit of a homebody).

I have never been in a relationship since I used to be far more introverted than I am now and being ABDL has never made it easy to seek relationships with people for fear of being ABDL being used against me but it's time to change that!

What I do for work: I am an IT technician currently working on level 2 help desk and am working on getting more certifications to get into a better job.

My looks:

I am 5 '3 and am fairly fit. I am constantly working on getting into better shape. I workout 5-7 days a week for about 30 min to an hour doing a mix of weight lifting and cardio. My ultimate fitness goal is to be able to princess carry( bridal carry) you and be able to carry you around even if you are taller or heavier than me!!

I weigh around 135ish pounds with short brown hair with a widow's peak, blueish eyes with glasses, and have a short beard( sometimes I shave it off, and 8/10 times I regret it). I try to keep everything below the neck shaved as often as my skin will let me.  

Likes/ Hobbies: 

Video games, photography, guns, exercising, cooking, and tinkering with technology/ DIY stuff. I want to get back into drawing/ 3D modeling/ Animation). 

Music I like: Jpop, Rock/metal, classical, EDM, eurobeat and music box

ABDL/ Kink stuff:

I am fairly open to exploring most things. I enjoy omorashi, very light humiliation, ABDL, CGL/ddlg

I would like to try bedwetting in the future but I'm not sure I will ever do it.

I am a CG/ Switch:

I am a soft daddy/ CG as I don't want to dominate you. I want to give you lots of love, emotional/ mental support, take care of you/ check on you, and give you advice/ guidance when you feel lost or upset. I want to be a guiding light you can always depend on!

I also post some of my fantasies and things I would like to do involving ABDL on my twitter @ JaidenCg if you are curious to see if we have overlapping fantasies/ goals in ABDL.

That doesn't mean I am afraid to give you punishments if it's something we agreed upon.

As for being a Switch:

I also have a bit of a little/ middle side. It doesn't come out that often but it would be nice to have the CG/ Mommy experience every once in a while CG/daddy needs a break every now and then

**About you**

You like/ want to be held/cuddled. I can be a bit clingy, physical touch is part of my love language, and I want to be able to hold and cuddle with you. 

You want to have a few kids. I would like to have a few someday raising the next generation is important and something I want to do.

Hold traditional values / Christian values. I guess I am a bit old school. I had my edgy atheist years believe me, but recently I find myself slowly coming back to God and realizing how important of a role those values and experiences played in my childhood/ upbringing.

It's also important to me that you have something that you are passionate about that is not ABDL/ little/ middle related (it doesn't matter what it is). I think it's important to have something that isn't tied to a kink.

Ideally, you have a career/ job that you want to excel in (how much you make is not important). A hard day's work makes the reward of coming home to relax with each other much more fun and enjoyable!

You are probably relatively fit or at least wanting/ willing to work on it. It would be great to work out together. Active littles are healthy littles, and I want you to be healthy and happy!

Having some overlapping hobbies is a plus but isn't a requirement! It's nice to share interests and hobbies but also having your own space is important too! I would love to listen to you talk about your interests!

Need you to be ok with guns being around. I enjoy guns and other tactical military gear. I don't expect you to go shooting or involve yourself with them if you don't want to but you need to be ok with them being around. They let me keep the evils in this world away from you! 

It's been a dream of mine to one day move out to a rural part of the country/ state preferably in the mountains, and live somewhat off the grid. Keeping modern amenities close like good internet, able to get things shipped to the house while having stores that are not super far away, that kind of stuff. 

If you think we are a match, send me a message with a 💕 to show me you read this massive wall of text and tell me something about you like a goal (short or long term) you have or a dream that you have!