Hi! My name is Anthony, and I'm looking for a submissive cis F little, age 20-35, preferably in the southeast US. But I'm also open to anywhere in the US or Canada, if time-zones and logistics won't be too difficult.

I know my post is fairly long; I'm looking to become a long-term to forever daddy/caregiver to a lovely little. Hopefully some reading isn't too much to ask for.

A little about me

I'm 36 and 6', with brown hair and brown eyes. At 210-220 pounds, I guess I'm fairly average. I never quite know how to paint a vivid enough description of myself. I do send pics upon request.

Basic criteria

My ideal girl is into wetting herself, preferably in both clothes and diapers. Accident-prone or even incontinent girls are highly welcome too. Basically, I want a very soggy relationship with a wet girl. And I'd adore having to change lots of wet clothes and/or diapers daily.

My ideal girl is also shorter than 6', and preferably petite/skinny/average. If you can wear Pullups or Goodnites, that'd be adorably perfect. But, as long as you could comfortably sit in my lap, I'd love that too. And if you have long hair that I could twirl and play with, I'd also adore that.

My ideal dynamic

I'd love a mostly cuddly/gentle dynamic mixed with humiliation depending on your comfort level (to be mostly related to wetting, accidents, diapering, and babying). I'm not a brat tamer, and I'm not looking for any brattiness beyond a playful amount every once in a while to mix things up.

I'll want the whole DDlg experience too. Immerse me in everything cute, girly, and Disney, and whatever else you're into too. I love stuffies, onesies, baby bottles, and everything else baby- or little-related.

Emotional connection

Perhaps more than anything else, I'd want to develop a deep emotional connection with you over time. I can't have a functional dynamic otherwise.

For example, I'd love conversations where we share childhood memories and discuss other nostalgic topics, and we see how much we have in common. I'd also wanna hear what makes you rare/different/special/unique, and love you for it, even if you don't always know how to love yourself.

And if/when you have days when the world is falling apart around you, then you'd always be welcome to fall apart on my lap and in my arms and/or on my chest, and you could cry on me for minutes, hours, or even all night—however long it'd take for you to feel okay again, even if you end up falling asleep on me afterward.

Communication

I try my best to show consistent effort in communication and making time for someone, and want to receive the same effort. If you're not at least decent at conversation, or if you abruptly disappear a lot, or can rarely ever talk for more than a few minutes at a time, or if you are often forgetful about replying, then we won't get along.

However, curiosity that leads to thoughtful/fun questions could easily win my heart and get me to open up. If you're clingy, I'd wish I could hug you tightly and never let you go (not even to let you pee, haha). And if you slip into baby/little space, I'd encourage you; I'd love baby talk, as long as I can still make out what you're saying.

Connections will start online, but I don't want online-only. I eventually want an offline relationship. I can't give hugs, change diapers, or get wet from your pee only online. If we reach a few weeks of talking and we're getting along very well, I'd love to try to start having voice calls at least semi-regularly. If we reach 1 month of talking and there's enough mutual interest, I would like a video call too.

I'm not interested if you:

1. Are outside my age range (19 may be okay if you're close to your 20th birthday), or are not a cis F.
2. Are in a relationship/marriage/dynamic, are poly, or are in regular contact with an ex.
3. Have children, or don't want children at all. (To be clear, I DO wish for children to be a long-term possibility, but I also won't rule you out if you're childfree, as long as we feel we're still a great match.)
4. Want to call me "daddy" or similar pet names right away. (I need an emotional connection before using pet names.)
5. Are not willing to take things at a likely leisurely pace. (DON'T try to pressure me to quickly trust you or to try to build a dynamic within the first week—it won't happen.)

Please make sure to pay attention above. The above are all scenarios I've dealt with from previous contacts, and I don't know how else to be clearer. For example, I shouldn't be getting 18-year-olds messaging me, but a few have recently, and I'm not okay with that.

Conclusion

If I catch your interest, please message or chat me (chat preferred) and share a brief intro about yourself. Tell me about either your first or favorite stuffy too, so I know you've read this (if somehow you don't have any stuffies, that's fine too—just be honest). I won't want to keep conversations on Reddit for long, however. I'll eventually want to move to any other app(s).

You may also enjoy my other post too, especially if you're a Disney fan, as I hid 30 references to Disney songs. It's basically a much longer version of this post, complete with a story of how I imagine life with the wet little of my dreams may be like. It's optional for now, but if we talk longer than a few days, I will ask you to read it if you haven't yet.