Hello! I’m a 27y male sub from the Midwest, whose name is being withheld for professional privacy reasons (: I am more than happy to tell in a private chat and verify though! I’m a taller, more masculine presenting guy with short facial hair, a bit of a dad bod (but I’m down like 30lbs in 6 months so we’re getting back to where I want!), short strawberry blonde hair and green and/or hazel eyes bc they just are kinda both, I guess.

I work in a pediatric hospital atm with the goal to end up doing pediatric flight nursing, so like flying in a small plane or helicopter transporting critically injured or sick children to hospitals, flying into natural disasters to save people, etc. I love my job and my family is a big reason I went into healthcare originally.

As far as hobbies, I play/write music. I play piano, cello and viola, and before I moved back from Atlanta (which is where I was until recently, I had an engineering job down there that got boring so I moved back home), I was part of the Atlanta Master Chorale there as a countertenor, which means I can sing decently high. My voice is softer and higher pitched as it is haha, but I love it. I love to sing and honestly if I didn’t have crippling social anxiety, (it’s less when in groups such as a concert choir), I’d love to start a social media platform and post my music and vocals there. I also have photos of me on my profile if you’re interested in what I look like, and again am happy to be vetted and verify however you like! I just expect the same in return so we both know we’re not getting catfished lol. I also collect rocks and love being outdoors just as much as staying inside. From kayaking and skydiving to baking/cooking (my dad owned a restaurant in Cali before I was born, so he raised me well in the “learn how to cook” sense), there’s a lot I enjoy doing, but music is my passion and honestly my dream job.

What I’m looking for in a person is someone who is emotionally available for a long term relationship. I love softer dommes and I’m not much of a brat myself, so no disrespect but if you’re overly strict we won’t mesh well together! I’d want someone who is okay with helping me with routine and structure, as I have clinically diagnosed ADHD but I’m decently high functioning. I want someone who I can fall head over heels with, take them stargazing and fall asleep together with, just the super cute almost hallmark style relationship without the toxic/dramatic background. I’m a hopeless romantic and I LOVE doing the super cute picture perfect dates with my person, even out of the honeymoon phase. Let me take you dancing on a moonlit beach in our seventies until one of us trips on a rock and we both end up breaking our hips or smth. See? Romantic stuff. I’m looking for someone that accepts and encourages my little side, too, as well as myself as a whole. Someone who lets me love on them and support them just the same.

As far as possible dealbreakers go, I, due to past trauma, will not be and will never be okay with anything regarding pegging, anal, anything like that as a kink or in general. That is a non negotiable and if you need that from your partner, I’m not the one for you. I am Pagan and I lean more left politically. I also am not sure if I want kids, but I’m open to them in the future when my partner and I are established better (: If those are not an issue with you, I am a very open, accepting person and would love for you to reach out!

Kink wise, I’m into mdlb, petplay, bondage, praise (I’m a slut for praise I can’t help it, both in and out of the bedroom), teasing, humiliation, somno, shibari, watersports, facesitting and probably some more tbh >.<

Hard limits for me are what I stated above, as well as degradation, if you’re reading this far please leave an ambulance emoji in your message, sissification, permanent body alterations, knife play, wax play, etc.

I’m curious about chastity, never tried it and am indifferent if not leaning towards just not wanting to try it at all, but I’ll try most things once with a trusted person.

I just want someone genuine, someone who is emotionally available, and someone who I can get along with and where we make each other laugh.

I’m a sweetheart that thinks of himself as communicative, compassionate, empathetic and mildly funny at really inappropriate times. Ideally you would be between 22-30, able to be driven to in a day at least but optimally same state as I, willing to travel to each other equally, and are looking for a serious, monogamous relationship with someone. I am going to be back in college soon but will be graduating in May. Please have your life somewhat together, as I have mine, and I ask that you have ambitions, dreams, goals etc that you want to follow or achieve someday! I am a very active person and enjoy those who think like me and don’t live a sedentary lifestyle! I am straight, so please no men. I hope to hear from you!!! (: