Hi! My name's Andrew. I'm an Accounting Major, with a little experience in computer science. I'm 22, 6/2, and while I'm not particularly fit I'm still in the healthy weight range for my age. I can be a little clingy, but I'd like to think I'm very reasonable and if you ask me to stop or tell me I'm being pushy I will adjust myself accordingly. I make mistakes, and all I ask is a chance to learn from them and not to be thrown out. I take promises extremely seriously, my word is my bond, and I ask that you take promises/favors with me just as seriously.
I'm looking for a domme, soft or hard, 20-30ish, who is worthy of my submission. I understand that if I were to submit to anyone I chatted with for more than a minute, my submission would no longer be meaningful, so please do not ask me to use honorifics until we connect.
I've been in an online dynamic for about 8-9 months, but she and I both agreed that it wasn't going to be romantic and she knows I'm looking for other options. That dynamic would end should I find a new one.
Ideally I'm looking for a relationship in-person, but I'm open to play-partners or a platonic relationship. Personally I'm monogamous, I can't see myself devoting to multiple people, but I'd be open to my partner being poly if we discussed it. I understand that in reality what I am looking for is a friendship or partner, not just an outlet for kinks, and so getting along and having some genuine connection is very important for me.
In my spare time, I love reading an occasional fantasy book, or playing tabletop or virtual games. Ask me what I'm playing in dnd, or what games I'm into, I'd love to play something with you outside of kink and just to hang out and get to know eachother better. I want to get to know you and know who I'm submitting to, not just online jois and whatever.
I have a lot of kinks, it's easier to just post the limits, but I'm open to most of BDSM, ABDL, Feminization, and really I'd probably be willing to try anything not on my limits. I'm absolutely fine excluding ABDL or Feminization if my partner isn't into it, they're often very polarizing and they're not very important to me.
My limits are: Electro, Blood, CEI, permanent marks, most public play, scat (unless it's safely kept in a diaper lmao), and findom. Maybe I'd be open to findom in the future but I'm a college student who pays out of pocket. It just isn't going to work, I *don't have* that much money lying around. I may be forgetting one or two but if they come up I'll always be straight up and honest about it.
Thank you for reading my ad. Chats preferred over DMs but ultimately it doesn't really matter.
Have a great evening.
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