***This is strictly a monogamous relationship only. No hook ups or short term relationships please.***

Good morning, afternoon, evening. My name is Nezhara and I am looking for a little/ middle girl who will become my best friend, wife and soulmate. Someone who will love me for my flaws and I yours. Ideally you are somewhat interested in some sort of CGlg/DDlg dynamic or you are a DL who is ok with occasionally playing the role of a CG/ mommy. I love being needed and I love nurturing/ guiding and helping those who are close to me. I think that being a CG/ daddy dom fills this need for me but please don't expect a 24/7 little/ middle dynamic. I want to love adult you just as much as little/ middle you.

**About me**

I like to think of myself as kind, mostly positive, very protective, caring, and supportive to those who are close to me. I always keep my promises. If I say I/ agree to do something I always do it. I have been told I can be a bit blunt/ straightforward. I also like working on myself and holding myself to high standards in everything I do.

As for what I do for work I am an IT technician currently working on level 2 help desk. I love working with computer hardware and enjoy dabbling in computer programming. I am pretty introverted (until I get to know someone) and don't really leave the house unless I have to (l am a bit of a homebody). I have never been in a relationship since I used to be far more introverted than I am now and being abdl has never made it easy to seek relationships with people for fear of being abdl being used against me but it's time to change that and nothing will change if I never try! I have a lot of love to give 

I am 5 '3 with a fairly active build that I am constantly working on. I weigh around 130 ish pounds with short brown hair, blueish eyes with glasses and typically have a short beard( sometimes I shave it off and 8/10 times I regret it). I try to keep everything below the neck shaved as often as my skin will let me. I am pretty active, I workout 5-7 days a week for about 30 min to an hour doing a mix of weight lifting and cardio. My goal is to be able to princess carry you and be able to carry you around even if you are taller or heavier than me! It will always be my goal!

Some of my hobbies that I enjoy are photography, guns, exercising, cooking, and tinkering with technology/ DIY stuff. I want to get better at drawing/ 3D modeling/ Animation(I'm bad at all of these LMAO despite having a bachelor's degree in Visual Communication Design), and I also enjoy playing a wide variety of video games. Some of my favorites are Monster Hunter, any Fromsoft game. I also watch anime/ vtubers frequently. Some hobbies I want to start are gunpla (gundam) building and possibly getting into a tcg. I like to listen to a wide range of music, mostly Jpop, Rock/metal, classical, edm, eurobeat and music box

For ABDL and kink stuff I am fairly open to exploring most things. 

I consider myself a DL/CG/ switch. Being a switch for me is mostly about wanting to sometimes have CG treatment and enjoying some aspects of keeping in touch with my own inner child. I wouldn't really consider myself a daddy dom as I'm not a huge fan of some of the micromanaging which some posts on here seem to want like setting strict rules, planning your day/ activities, picking out your cloths, picking your food etc., for me it is more of a CG role and checking in on you throughout the day to make sure you are doing ok (playing with you/ cuddling, doing random diaper checks/ changing you, making sure you are eating enough/ staying hydrated, making sure/ giving you get a proper bath, getting you ready for bed, etc).

Setting up rules and punishments is something I am open to if you want it since everyone has different preferences or ideas on what a daddy-dom should be/ do. However I want to give you emotional support and give you advice/ guidance when you feel lost or upset. I want to be a guiding light you can always depend on! 

I like to wear diapers as well, they are more of a comfort and convenience thing for me. It would be nice if we changed each other once we are comfortable in the relationship! I think it's a very intimate thing to do and should be done by someone you love and trust!

Diapers give me a soft cozy vibe. I do enjoy doing omorashi/ bladder holding challenges on occasion and would like to try bedwetting in the future but I'm not sure I will ever do it. I don't really have any plans on wearing diapers 24/7 since I like to keep busy adult life separate from the comfy cozy vibes I get from wearing diapers but if you want to go 24/7 I will support you the best I can!

Scat/ Simulated messing I don't mind changing the occasional messy diaper but if you like frequently messing your diapers you should expect to be the one to change them most of the time. That being said, if I can smell you across the room I'm either going to make you change or will change you and force you to stop what you are doing (don't you dare think about abusing this! I can already see you plotting! You're not going to like the consequences!!!)

**About you**

You like/ want to be held/cuddled. I can be a bit on the clingy side, physical touch is part of my love language, I want to be able to hold and cuddle with you. Maybe even bounce you on my knee!

Is ok with occasionally being a CG/ Mommy on occasion. It's not something I want often but there are times when it would be nice to have some of the CG things like I listed above that keeps my inner child flame burning.

You want to have a few kids. I would like to have a few someday raising the next generation is important even though things might look bad now but they won't always be!

Hold traditional values / Christian values. I guess I am a bit old school in that regard. I had my edgy atheist years believe me, but recently I find myself slowly coming back to God and realizing how important of a role those values and experiences played in my childhood/ upbringing.

It's also important to me that you have something that you are passionate about that is not ABDL/ little/ middle related (it doesn't matter what it is). I think it's important to have something that isn't tied to a kink.

Ideally you have a career/ job that you want to excel in (how much you make is not important). A hard day's work makes the reward of coming home to relax with each other much more fun and enjoyable!

Preferably you are relatively fit. It would be great to be able to workout together. Active littles are healthy littles and I want you to be healthy and happy!

Having some overlapping hobbies is a plus but isn't a requirement! It's nice to share interests and hobbies but also having your own space is important too! I would love to listen to you talk about your interests!

Need you to be ok with guns being around. I enjoy guns and they let me keep the evils in this world away from you! I don't expect you to go shooting or involve yourself with them if you don't want to but you need to be ok with them being around

It's been a dream of mine to one day move out to a rural part of the country/ state, maybe even into the mountains and live somewhat off the grid. Keeping modern amenities close like good internet and having stores that are not super far away. So hopefully you have a similar goal in mind!

If you think we are a match, send me a message telling me about you! What are your hobbies? What kind of foods do you like? What kind of music do you like? What about my post made you want to message me?