Good morning, afternoon, evening. My name is Nez and I am searching for my best friend, wife and soul mate. This is strictly a monogamous relationship only. No hook ups or short term relationships please.

About me

I am an IT technician currently working on level 2 help desk. I love working with computer hardware and enjoy dabbling in computer programming. I am working on getting new certifications to further my career. I am pretty introverted (until I get to know someone) and don't really leave the house unless I have to(I want to work on getting out more). I have never been in a relationship since I used to be far more introverted than I am now so I never really had the guts to try until recently, but I have a lot of love to give. I love learning new things whether it's new technology, a new skill or exploring a new hobby. I also like doing DIY type projects and tinkering with tech. I also like working on myself and holding myself to high standards in everything I do (for better or for worse)

I am 5'3 (160cm) and weigh around 130 lb with short brown hair, blueish eyes with glasses and typically have a short beard( sometimes I shave it off and 8/10 times I regret it) while keeping everything below the neck shaved. I am pretty active, I workout 5-7 days a week for about 30 min to an hour.

I like to think of myself as kind, protective and caring to those close to me. I always keep my promises. If I say I/ agree to do something I always do it. I never half ass anything that I do, I always use my whole ass. I have been told I can be a bit blunt/ straightforward ( I say what I mean and mean what I say). I can be a bit clingy, physical touch is part of my love language, I want to be able to hold and cuddle you.

Hobbies that I enjoy are photography, guns/ tactical gear/ weapon history, exercising, cooking, tinkering with technology. Skills I want to get better at drawing/ 3D modeling/ Animation(I'm bad at all of these LMAO despite having a bachelor's degree in Visual Communication Design), and I also enjoy videos games like Fallout, Civ, Monster Hunter, Elden Ring/ Dark Souls/Bloodborne, Factorio, Armored Core. I also watch anime/ vtubers frequently. A hobby I want to start gunpla(gundam) building. I listen to a wide range of music, mostly Jpop, Rock/metal, classical, edm.!

ABDL/ kinks are things that I am fairly open to exploring with some limitations. I am a DL and a switch. I don't really have dom side it more of a CG role with some added light embarrassment and punishment if needed. I would say it's 60% CG and 40% sub. I love being needed and think that being a CG fills this need for me but if you are a little/ middle, don't expect a 24/7 dynamic. I want to love adult you just as much as little/ middle you.

Diapers are more of a comfort and convenience thing than a sexual thing. That being said I do like omorashi/ bladder holding challenges and would like to try bedwetting. I'm not opposed to diapers being used in a sexual way. If that's something you're into, I'm down to try it.

Soft limits for kinks:

Teasing/ humiliation so long as it's done in private( not in public or online) Im ok with it 

Restraints depending on how much they restrict movement makes me uncomfortable. If you like restraints that's fine I can work with your boundaries.

Spanking so long as we have agreed boundaries is fine.

Scat/ Simulated messing ( I don't mind changing an occasional messy diaper but if you like messing your diapers expect to be the one to change them 90% of the time)

Hard limits for kinks are:

Scat (anything that is not in a diaper)

Anything involving multiple people

BDSM (choking, slapping, whipping) anything like that is a no go for me. I won't do it to you and I don't want it down to me.

About you

You want to have kids.

It's important to me that you have something that you are passionate about that is not ABDL/ little/ middle related (it doesn't matter what it is)

Ideally you have a career/ job that you want to excel in (how much you make is not important). 

Preferably you are relatively fit. It would be great to be able to workout together.

Having some overlapping hobbies is a plus but to required 

Need to be ok with guns being around. I'm a pretty big gun nut so you need to be ok with them being around.

Wants to one day live in a rural area