Intelligent, sweet, and fun babygirl seeks caretaker daddy for long term, monogamous relationship. Expectations include healthy & honest communicarion, shared mental and physical load, and lots and lots of being mushy and sweet. No pain please, pleasure is the name of the game.

Me: * 5'6" * Short hair, green eyes, glasses * plus size * nerdy * childfree * liberal / left leaning * 420 friendly * vaccinated * ADHD * cat owner

My interests include gaming (video, board, card, tabletop), cooking & baking, travel, archeology, singing, the arts, science and technology. I enjoy splitting my time between being home and adventuring for fun experiences like going to concerts and visiting museums.

I'm a smart, savvy woman with more than 10 years experience in the kink scene, not a naieve youngling with no sense. I know what I'm talking about and how to spot the fakers, so please don't waste either of our time by pretending if we aren't a match. Let's just be honest with each other about our needs so we can see if we are a good fit.

As a note - this is the first time I'm opening up my ad to non-male matches. I want to be honest and clear, I am leas fixated on gender or gender expression and more on uh...I'm attracted to male genitalia, both giving and receiving. Boobs can be fun, but I am not attracted to female genitalia beyond that.

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Lists

HARD NO 😡:

• Sadism - I'm not a masochist at all and don't enjoy activities that are solely for provoking pain.
• Impact Play - flogging, caning, etc are off the table for me. As much as I like the idea of spanking, it doesn't work in real life.
• TPE, 24/7, etc - I am a very obedient girl for my Top as long as they're showing me the respect and care I deserve. I wish to always retain my right to say no or walk away, so being a slave doesn't appeal to me
• Breeding - Pregnancy and kids is a big turn off for me
• Bimbofication - While I like to let go and like to obey, I'm proud of being smart and want my Top to be too!
• Engaging the unwitting/unwilling public - I believe wholly in consent and don't believe in exposing the public to kinks or sex without their consent (so obvious baby clothes in public kind of thing not for me)

YES!! List

• assurance / praise
• being made to blush (I enjoy it and it's very easy)
• being nicely forced into accepting being cared for / babied
• being diapered and changed
• being a good girl
• being spoiled / pampered
• Having pacifier and stuffy
• being in Daddy's lap and given my sippy

Yes Kink Stuff:

• sensory play
• roleplay
• light bondage
• submission
• praise (receiving)
• Sex toys
• Light anal play

Maybe? Kink Stuff

• bondage / baby bondage
• forced orgasm
• voyeurism
• pet play
• anal training
• pegging (giving)

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Hi! I've been searching for a long time and still hoping to find a match 😊 maybe that's you? Let's find out!

Are you someone who:

• Gets a sense of satisfaction when you're able to be there as support for your partner, both in the kink space and outside it?
• Loves cuddles and affection?
• Is secure in themselves and understand their own emotions and communicate their needs?
• Seeks to continue learning, growing, and improving through life?
• Desires to feel needed by someone who looks to you for comfort, guidance, and a sense of safety?
• Will add the name of a candy to your message so I know you actually read this?
  
• Knows how to create a safe space for a little and understands the level of responsibility and consideration it takes to be a daddy and caregiver for someone?
• Creates an environment that encourages their little to fully surrender to them?
• Isn't just looking for sex or a fling, but an emotional connection that spans both normal relationship and kink desires?
• Wants to seek how to bring the most pleasure and gratification to your partner while they do the same in return?
• Wants a partner who seeks to left them up and cheer them on in life?
• Seeks not to oppress, but to guide and nurture their little through structure and accountability?
• Is familiar, open, and supportive when it comes to ADHD, mental health, and emotions?

If you answered yes to these, congratulations! It sounds like we are on the right track and I'd love to hear from you. I am (impatiently) waiting for your message. Thank you!!