Hi! I go by Bunz online, but I’ll slip you some irl nicknames if I trust you enough. 20yo AFAB, currently a student at the Big Basketball School with a Husky Mascot. Y’know. That one! Also a casual ABDL, mostly sfw in nature. But it’s not my full identity, and I hope we can get to know each other as actual people.

I’m a big nerd for Nintendo games like Fire Emblem, Splatoon, and Pokemon. I love Vocaloid music and birdwatching, and like to doodle in my spare time as well. I love shitposting, laughing out loud, rambling about fanfiction, and guzzling down a hard cider next to a bonfire. Full disclosure— I am Autistic, among other diagnoses such as anxiety. I need calm and stability, I need to be treated gently. I need to be slowly eased into things, and sexual things are out of the question until I’m ready. I just want to be friends first, man. Currently studying digital media. Lived in CT my whole life.

I’m 5’5, 150-160 pounds, curvy build. Short/medium brown hair, and I always glasses in public. I’ve got mixed European descent, predominantly Italian. I’ll admit I’m only somewhat conventionally attractive to a lot of people, but I’m working on it.

As for my visual tastes in men— I guess i’m a tiny bit picky? I want someone with a healthy body type, for one thing. No, you don’t have to be super muscular or thinner than a string bean, but I do like a healthy looking body. I’m very partial to long hair and glasses, but those are a bonus for me. I prefer clean shaven faces, if it matters. But I’m definitely more focused on your personality. I need patience. I need eagerness and encouragement, and I need someone who understands my strong boundaries. I need my own control over myself. I’ve been hurt, I’ve experienced trauma, so please don’t let your horniness out all over me upon the first message. I don’t care about that. I wanna learn about you and laugh at cat gifs. I wanna chat and maybe play some games together. I want someone to yap to about my interests or just vibe and parallel play with.

Also, if it matters, I’m on the liberal side of politics for the most part, grew up catholic, but am now agnostic/non-practicing.

Okay, into the meaty stuff— the ABDL. I’m not interested in 24/7 stuff. I like having a balance in my life. It’s something I go to for comfort. I’m not super sexual when it comes to the AB side. My regression comes from a place of healing trauma. I just like being checked up on, maybe held in a lap or sprawled out with some toys or games while someone keeps an eye on me. I need someone there, if I get upset. As for diapers— I do not mess nor do I have any current plans to. Wetting only. Diapers are something I get sexual satisfaction from, sometimes. As for actual sex things— I cannot have penetrative sex. It is excruciatingly painful for me due to a condition. I’ve considered dilation therapy, if I find the right person. But also due to my sexual trauma, I tend to freeze up or become unable to orgasm around another person. I’m a little broken when it comes to sex— I’m sorry. I have to be safe and alone wrapped up in my blanket with my wand. That’s the only way I can ever fully release. I really do want to try more— but I need someone patient and someone who’s fine with the idea of me not being a sexual person. I’m fine with you having other sexual partners as long as I’m the only romantic partner you have.

All in all, I need things slow. Let’s be friends! Let’s play minecraft and complain about our lives and make jokes! And maybe, if I feel a connection, we can talk more. We shall see!

DMs that just say ‘hello’ will be ignored. Overly sexual DMs will also be ignored. DMs must contain a HEART EMOJI ❤️ of any color or they will be ignored. 24 is my limit on age. If you are over 24, you will be ignored— sorry!