Personals

The Presentation

The Boring Stuff

Who am I?

I'm a 30 year old male from Scandinavia. I live in a medium size city with an ocean view. Got a master's degree. Have a full-time job which I love. I'm 183 cm, dark hair, blue eyes and average build.

How do I relax?

Currently my main recreational activity is weightlifting and fitness. It's relatively new for me, but I'm loving every second of it. Other than that I love spending time with friends. Activities I enjoy can include a chill night at a bar, an evening of board games, a fun and light, semi competitive activity. I also sometimes enjoy time by myself with either a TV show, book or movie.

The Kinky Stuff

What Kinks am I Into?

My main kink is diapers. I have, for as long as I can remember, always been into diapers. I was never a bedwetter or anything so I came off them early in childhood. My main version of the kink is that I mostly enjoy seeing women wear diapers, and I enjoy wearing diapers myself as well. I'm only into wetting, but not messing. I am not AB myself, I’m 100% DL. My main ambition is not to be a daddy. I am open do it sporadically. More on that later.

How do I Live out my Kinks?

I touched a little on this above, but I only rarely wear the diapers myself. It's mostly after a long time of longing and then I get my fix after a few weeks. The main thing for me is, that I find women wearing diapers immensely attractive. I have never been in a relationship with such a dynamic, unfortunately. In section 3 I will describe how I would like our relationship dynamic.

How and When Should the Kink be practiced

I have always been of the opinion that our normal lives come first and the kink is a secondary element. So it would mainly be something that belongs in the bedroom. I will add that if I a girlfriend who's adventures, I would find it exciting to accommodate that. I see diapers being used during sex, but also to non-sexually just chill during the evening. I also see my girlfriend sleeping in diapers from time to time (or every night if you wish). If you have an AB/little side I am willing to sporadically do the daddy role, but I do not want that to be our main dynamic.

The Romantic Stuff

What am I looking for?

I am strictly on this page to look for potential romantic relationships. Therefore, if I message you, that means I have found you attractive and interesting and would potentially want a romantic relationship with you if we are compatible after we get to know each other. I will never text you to just small talk, ask for pictures, sexting or become your customer. The type of relationship I want is a longterm, monogamous relationship based on love, trust, equality, and loyalty. In my future I want to raise a family so a potential partner must be open to having offspring.

Who am I looking for?

I am looking for a cis-female around my age, my ideal range is 22-33 years, but this is not a strict range and I will make an individual assessment based on the person I am talking to, because on can be 19 or 20, but at the same time have a mature mentality or older than 33 and be an amazing and compatible person, beautiful person whom I would love to meet. What I value in a potential girlfriend is kindness, empathy, loyalty and intelligence. I do not care about income or job as long as you have most of the aforementioned traits. It obviously crucial that you love diapers too, but if you are at least open to wearing them and willing to try, we can see where it leads.

Where am I Looking?

I live in Scandinavia myself, so it would be most optimal if you lived in that region as well. But I am open to starting with a long-distance relationship, but I must admit, that in the long-term it's required that you are open to relocation.

What do I Bring to the Table?

I would describe myself as a diligent and intelligent man. I took the Myers-Briggs personality tests and scored ESTJ. I am very grounded and chill. In a relationship I expect that my partners puts as much effort into the relationship as I do. My love language is thoughtful deeds and intimate, physical moments (not sex). I work a stable job, with high job security and I have very decent income and therefore can provide financial security.

If you've read all the way please answer the following questions in a DM:

1: Do you do drugs? If so what kind and how frequently? 2: do you want a 24/7 dynamic or only to spice things up? 3: where do you live? Are you willing to relocate if necessary? 4: Do you have any mental health issues I should know about? 5: Do you look after your own health?

There are no right or wrong answers, and all answers will be evaluated in a wider context.

That's all for now. If you read everything, thanks for your time. And don't be shy, I always welcome any DM. I hope to hear from you.