I moved to this city earlier this year, and I feel like I've had good luck with similar ads, so here goes. I'm mostly looking for women because I really don't struggle to make friends with guys in the community. I tend to get along well with gay guys, but I am straight myself. I am open to more guy friends, but unsurprisingly I tend to get way more traffic from them when I put it in the title.

Physically, I'm 5'8" with blue eyes and brown hair. I'm pretty muscular as a result of my hobbies, and I've always been told I'm handsome. I'm generally very chill and quite introverted. It'll likely take me a bit to get really comfortable, but I have a good (and slightly unhinged) sense of humor once I do. I tend to find big group settings awkward, but I'm happy with one person or smaller groups. And I'm a software engineer, hence the nerd part.

Shirtless pic if you're curious: https://imgur.com/a/kF9Hmzj

And a bit of the unhinged humor I mentioned: https://imgur.com/a/YqupeS2

My main hobbies are weightlifting and running, but I've been taking guitar lessons (keep your expectations low, I'm not good) and participating in some rec sports leagues as well. I also enjoy watching anime, making coffee, and occasionally baking. I'm a cat dad to a fluffy void I adore and spoil endlessly. She's very friendly too, almost to a fault. At times when I've been cuddling with people, she's decided to just lay down on top of both of us to demand her daily attention. You have been warned.

And because I can't resist, here's some pics for the cat tax: https://imgur.com/a/9jEenI8

I'm open to being friends with anyone (obviously 18 ), but for a romantic relationship I would prefer someone in the 23-33 age range. I'd love it if we had some interests in common - a running or lifting buddy in particular would be awesome. And I'm happy to explore new hobbies if it's stuff you're into. I'm fairly active in the local ABDL scene too, so we can go to events together. I know a few guys and girls in the local scene already, but I'm always looking to meet more people and I would love to help anyone interested get involved in the local scene themselves. I'm really looking for friends first, but I'm open to the relationship evolving past that if we both want it to. A long term relationship is a goal of mine, but that doesn't make any other ones I form any less welcome or valuable.

Kink-wise, I'm obviously into ABDL. I'm a switch with both AB and DL tendencies. As a daddy, I'm a huge tease and I'm very good at getting littles to blush. Very much a soft daddy, but I am interested in spanking as well if behavior adjustment is needed 😉 I'm pretty strong too, so there's a good chance I can pick you up 💪 I enjoy being the little occasionally too, and I tend to be shy but sassy in littlespace. And honestly, I just think girls in diapers are hot and I like when they like guys in diapers. I have some other kinks and I'm always open to exploring, but ABDL is by far my biggest.

Hope to talk to you!