Please take the time to read and ask questions but I'll say a few things up front... I'm not interested in an online only arrangement and I'd prefer to meet someone in the Michigan area within a few weeks of seriously talking. I'm really looking for cis woman who is 25 or older but I can be flexible for the right person. I would love to hear from you!

I'm honestly just looking for a genuine connection. I'm open to friendship, play partners, babysitting, or long term relationships. Let's just see what happens and try not to force it. Please be close so we can meet IRL within a reasonable timeframe, if we hit it off. Close meaning a reasonable distance around south east Michigan.

Vanilla Me:

I'm 38-year-old cishet white male with a busy career that keeps me on my toes. My default mode leans toward being introverted and I prefer not to be the center of attention in a crowd although I'm perfectly comfortable in that role, if needed. I often choose to be a man of few words in social situations but I can easily switch to talking your ear off if the right topic comes up and we get into a groove! In conversation, I like to listen and I enjoy being with others that are comfortable just existing together.

Physically, I'm 5' 9" and I stay fairly active. I have blonde hair, blue eyes, glasses and my ears pierced/stretched. I don't have any tattoos because I've just never felt the urge to get one but I am not opposed to it. I'm usually a t-shirt and jeans kind of guy that wears lots of plain black t-shirts :P

I love listening to music that is dark, danceable and moody. Synth pop, industrial, and the like are my jam. I enjoy gaming but I'm extremely casual about it and just don't have the patience to spend hundreds of hours on something. That said, I'd love to play something with you! I also really love going to the movies and just forgetting about real life by getting sucked into a story for an hour or two. Streaming is amazing as well because of the amazing variety of content but I have a soft spot for the movie theater.

I enjoy cooking but I don't do it that much as a single guy. I do like to eat out often at interesting places as entertainment and I'm totally fine with spending money on good food. I'm not much of a bar guy as I don't really drink much.

I'm extremely comfortable being single but would love to find someone to share the journey with.

CG Me:

I'm 100% a Daddy at heart. I'm very into abdl with an emphasis on the dl side of things. I'm also into spanking, degradation, humiliation, and bondage as long as they are done in a loving and caring way. Bathroom use control is so incredibly hot and I think that diapering is one of the most intimate and special things you could possibly share with a partner.

It doesn't always have to be sexy kinky either. I'm down with SFW play as well where I just get to be a doting and loving Daddy. Make my heart melt with all the cute, please. 😍

What I'm looking for:

At this point in my life, I'm really looking for a long-term partner but I'm 100% open to babysitting and other casual play scenarios in real life. I want to connect with people and keep learning as I search for my long-term partner. Outside of our special relationship, we'd both be responsible, independent adults that can rely on each other.