Hello,

I’m looking for someone who is more-interested in the “DL” and less into the “AB” aspects of what I consider a fetish. I am 35 and therefore officially on my “Daddy” arc. I don’t have any interest in wearing, but I want you to as an act of submission. I have no interest in corrupting anyone’s “little space.” Especially if you’re non-sexual. If you don’t have a libido, we probably wouldn’t be compatible.

I have interest in kink, but this one, for whatever reason goes back the furthest. I’ve never pursued a relationship with someone with such-mutual feelings. I wouldn’t even know how to go about it in a more-vanilla relationship. I’m here, because I’m seeking a like-minded partner who doesn’t need to explain their disposition. In other words, this is a kinky secret that remains between us.

I’m relatively normal while still maintaining some eccentricities. For instance, I’m deeply interested in the Arts. I’ve been a designer for 20 years and make decent money with it as a professional. I’m very attracted to other creative people. I operate a side-hustle where I sell original designs. So many of you like to color. Are you trainable? A good girl would color my intricate line art. A good girl would help me in my pursuit and be rewarded. Music is my other passionate hobby that I’ve also practiced for 2 decades. I’m into Alternative. To make sure you’ve read my post, tell me your favorite musical act.

I’m also interested in physical activity. I keep in shape. I’m 5’10” and usually between 170 and 180 lbs. I want to find someone else who regularly works out. I’d like to go hiking across the country one day and I need someone who can keep up!

I have this more-tame fantasy, because I spend so much time in front of a computer for work. The position is totally remote, but rarely do I take advantage of my scenario. I work extremely hard, and am unwilling to compromise my employment. Sometimes I have to work long hours. I need someone who is understanding. I’m also hoping that if you help me with my side hustle, that will not only it be a bonding experience, but an additional revenue stream.

I’m want to find someone who is interested in me outside of kink. Kink is the cherry on top. Ultimately, you can feign being “normal” when the occasion calls for it, but indulge in these peculiarities behind closed doors. I’ve put Nashville and St. Louis in the title as these are 2 cities I am within a 2 - 3 hour proximity to. Additionally, I would consider moving to either city. I do not mind a long-distance scenario, but I want to eventually live together.

Another thing about me includes that I want a monogamous relationship. If you’re “poly” or a man, please do not message me. I’m childfree. I’m pet-free, but I like cats. I like online culture. I have an obscure sense of humor. I’m kind of introverted, but can be sociable without being awkward. I don’t have an age-range in mind as long as you’re of age, of course. I live a kind of disciplined, yet leisurely life. The only thing missing is a sincere, lasting relationship.

I think I’ve written enough to scratch the surface of who I am. If you’re interested, please DM/chat me only. Tell me a bit about who you are, where you’re at, what you’re looking for, etc.