Heya! I'm a 19 year old "middle/switch" boy currently living in Baltimore, Maryland. I can explain the reasoning for me putting Rochester there as well in DMs, but please only bother asking about it if you live in Rochester. I'm looking for either an online or local partner for me to learn the ropes of ABDL with. A little bit of context, I am currently living with my parents, and have never had a chance to explore the kink at all. I'm looking for one of four things, mainly:

1. A Mommy/Daddy to help show me the ropes of ABDL, preferably local so that I could actually wear, as I am unable to wear at my house given my current situation. If not, I'm always open to a kind and gentle Mommy/Daddy to be a soft online dom for me, and I'm happy be little for you over Discord if you're not local!

2. A little (preferably female, but I don't really mind either way) for me to be a caregiver for. I'm a very soft cg, so unless I'm really comfortable with you, I am unlikely to be up to immediately do BDSM stuff or anything, but I suppose I am tentatively open to that kind of stuff in the future. Again, this works better if you're local but I'm fine with doing it online.

3. Just a friend. I don't care if you're little, big, in between, or whatever. Just someone to chat with or possibly even hang out with in person (if you're local obviously)! I'm down to cg or be little for you in this role as well, but this would mainly be a friendship, where we both happen to share this kink. I'm happy to discuss my hobbies (which we can engage in no matter which of these options you'd prefer) in DMs or on Discord, so if this seems like something you're looking for, let me know.

4. I'm also open for romantic partners! Probably a mix of the previous three options, I'd love begin a relationship with someone who shares these kinks with me! This could either be online or in person, I don't mind which. For this one specifically, I'd much prefer someone within a few years of me (18-21), but I could be convinced for a year or two older depending.

In terms of my ages limits for the other ones, I can do any of these online with someone 18-33 or so. If you're looking to do in-person, I'd be much more comfortable with someone 18-26. In terms of DMing me, feel free to do so no matter which one of these you fit into, no need to ask in the comments! If you'd like to send me a comment for some reason, though, those are also totally welcome. My main method of interaction is Discord, which I will be happy to provide once I ascertain that you are not a complete weirdo in DMs :P. I can give a more full list of kinks in DMs or Discord, but my main ones are Diapers, Wetting, Messing, and Desperation!

I hope to hear from you!

Tech (I go by other things, which I will provide in DMs)