Personals

The Presentation

The Boring Stuff

Who am I?

I'm a 30 year old male from Scandinavia. I live in a medium size city with an ocean view. I grew up in a small town in an ordinary, working class family, and still have no close relations with my family extended family. No baggage or childhood trauma. I moved out in my start 20s to start my university studies. During my 20s I have had to move often due to University transfers and career advancements, this has given me a good ability to remain adaptable and has given me a wide range of friends and acquaintances throughout my life. I still maintain some connection to friends from abroad. I expect I am more or less settled now, and barring any major unforeseen changes, my nomadic existence has come to an end, fortunately.

What do I do?

I have always had some sort of job since I was a young teenager. But I could never see myself living my life in the confinement of a small town, and thus made the choice to move abroad to study. As my name might reveal, I now work in health care and dedicate my time to helping people. I currently have a good career trajectory and will achieve my career goal within the next few years, barring any unforeseen events.

How do I relax?

Currently my main recreational activity is weightlifting and fitness. It's relatively new for me, but I'm loving every second of it. Other than that I love spending time with friends. Activities I enjoy can include a chill night at a bar, an evening of board games, a fun and light, semi competitive activity. I also sometimes enjoy time by myself with either a TV show, book or movie.

The Kinky Stuff

What Kinks am I Into?

My main kink is diapers. I have, for as long as I can remember, always been into diapers. I was never a bedwetter or anything so I came off them early in childhood. The sexual part came during puberty when I found ABDL videos on the internet, and then I also learned there was a whole wider world out there. It wasn't until my mid 20's that I tried wearing them again for myself. Since then I have only done so very sporadically. My main version of the kink is that I mostly enjoy seeing women wear them, and only rarely need to try them myself. I'm only into wetting, but not messing. What about the AB part you might be thinking? Well, age-playing was never something I was curious about growing up, and in adulthood, it's not something I want to do myself. That means you won't see me playing the little, baby, sub etc. But what about being a daddy or dom? Well, that is something I am certainly curious about, but more on that in section 3.

How do I Live out my Kinks?

I touched a little on this above, but I only rarely wear the diapers myself. It's mostly after a long time of longing and then I get my fix after a few weeks. The main thing for me is, that I find women wearing diapers immensely attractive. I have never been in a relationship with such a dynamic, unfortunately. In section 3 I will describe how I would like our relationship dynamic.

How and When Should the Kink be practiced

I have always been of the opinion that our normal lives come first and the kink is a secondary element. So it would mainly be something that belongs in the bedroom. I will add that if I a girlfriend who's adventures, I would find it exciting to accommodate that. I see diapers being used during sex, but also to non-sexually just chill during the evening. I also see my girlfriend sleeping in diapers from time to time (or every night if you wish). If you also are an AB/little we would also have play sessions where you will be a little and I will be the daddy who takes care of you, plays with you, cuddles you and changes you.

The Romantic Stuff

What am I looking for?

I am strictly on this page to look for potential romantic relationships. Therefore, if I message you, that means I have found you attractive and interesting and would potentially want a romantic relationship with you if we are compatible after we get to know each other. I will never text you to just small talk, ask for pictures, sexting or become your customer. The type of relationship I want is a longterm, monogamous relationship based on love, trust, equality, and loyalty. In my future I want to raise a family so a potential partner must be open to having offspring.

Who am I looking for?

I am looking for a cis-female around my age, my ideal range is 22-33 years, but this is not a strict range and I will make an individual assessment based on the person I am talking to, because on can be 19 or 20, but at the same time have a mature mentality or older than 33 and be an amazing and compatible person, beautiful person whom I would love to meet. What I value in a potential girlfriend is kindness, empathy, loyalty and intelligence. I do not care about income or job as long as you have most of the aforementioned traits. It obviously crucial that you love diapers too, but if you are at least open to wearing them and willing to try, we can see where it leads.

Where am I Looking?

I live in Scandinavia myself, so it would be most optimal if you lived in that region as well. But I am open to starting with a long-distance relationship, but I must admit, that in the long-term it's required that you are open to relocation.

What do I Bring to the Table?

I would describe myself as a diligent and intelligent man. I took the Myers-Briggs personality tests and scored ESTJ. I am very grounded and chill. In a relationship I expect that my partners puts as much effort into the relationship as I do. My love language is thoughtful deeds and intimate, physical moments (not sex). I work a stable job, with high job security and I have very decent income and therefore can provide financial security.