Hello! I have been into abdl for a few years now and just recently moved back to Southern california after graduating with a degree. I actually got into abdl during my time in college and explored it and now that I'm back in california I'm looking to expand upon my abdl experience.

I'm looking for a partner, someone who's 19-45, takes on a more dominant role in the relationship, and isn't just looking for sex or to get off. Of course intimacy like that is great but I'm looking for a partner, not a hookup. Body size and shape don't matter much to me but I do prefer if you look feminine or androgynous. If you're masculine that doesn't exclude you! I'd still love to hear from you too!

I am not looking to use you as a kink dispenser, I want a relationship first and foremost. I'd prefer you to be in or near southern california as that is where I live and I don't have the means to travel too far. Once again, if you are not near southern california that doesn't exclude you! If you are cross state or country that's fine too! Just a preference that your near me is all.

Now about me. I'm 21 male, I just graduated from college with an associates degree, and I'm a massive nerd. I love games of all kinds, board games, card games, videogames, tabletop games, and I will talk extensively about each of them. I'm also a storyteller. I like to Reminisce or tell stories about past events that make me chuckle and will hopefully do the same for you. You will often hear me say "reminds me of when" or "there's this funny thing I did". I love to laugh but more than that love to make others laugh. I also love karaoke and my go to song is just the two of us! I watch a lot of anime as well which has gotten me interested in art over the years so I draw and paint every now and then when I'm feeling inspired. Or when I make a new dnd character lol.

As for my appearance I can send pics in dms. I'll try my best to describe it here tho! I'm a big guy, overweight as it is. But I've been losing a lot of weight over the last half year and plan to keep losing weight and fat for at the least the next 6 months as a goal. I have blonde super curly hair but if I brush it out it becomes this big poof ball. I still think it looks good but it is funny to look at. I have a full beard that I keep trimmed, I wear glasses, I have blue eyes, and I love to wear hawaiin shirts and shorts. Honestly the best combo.

So that's a little about me, and a little about the person I hope to find. As I said I'm a little and want someone more dominant but that doesn't mean they can't be a switch! If you also like to wear and have a little side that's great! I think with enough experience I could be a switch myself but I definitely want someone who is either a switch or dominant.

If you think you don't meet the requirements I encourage you to shoot your shot anyways. Preferences aren't deal breakers so I'd be happy to talk to any of you that are interested. One last thing, if you're a little and want another little friend you're more than welcome to dm me as well! Just let me know that's what you're looking for when you dm me. Thanks everyone, hope to hear from you soon!