To get a few things out of the way without you needing to read the whole post: My little space/regressed time is purely non sexual. I don't like messing and try to avoid it if I can help it. I am strictly monogamous, if things go further than friends I need a partner who's the same and I'm not into casual stuff. I am trans (mtf) and I need people who are either trans or are trans friendly who don't need explaining on trans related stuff. This also means I don't want people who are curious about dating trans people to "see what it's like," or a trans chasers. I don't have an exact age range requirement (other than the obvious be an adult), but I do feel more comfortable with people closer my age.
With that out of the way...
Hi! I've lived here for a while but due to having a nighttime work schedule, a bit of social anxiety, and not sure where to look for other littles/cg's, I don't really have anyone I'm super close with that I can truly be myself around irl. I figured there's no harm in putting some feelers out and see if anything happens.
A little about little me: Like I said earlier, my little side isn't sexual. For me it's away to de-stress from everyday stuff and is a much healthier alternative than other coping methods I've used in the past. Since finding my little self I feel a lot happier. Even when I'm not in super little space there's always a part of me that feels like a child at heart, even though I may not be vocal about it. My little age ranges from infant to toddler ish. I enjoy things most littles do, paci's, sippi's/bottles, onsies, coloring, cartoons/ kids movies, naps, and TONS of stuffies! I do have a zoo membership, so I'm always up for going there :) I do wear nappies/pullups most of the time. That started because of some tummy troubles I used to have more often then I realized it helped me feel more comfy and secure.
Big me: I'm more of a shy nerdy gamer. I play on pc, though I don't really play competitive games as much anymore. I can feel my reflexes getting slower and have started to not find them as fun. I do play dnd (usually once a week) with my party for almost 2 years. I main a druid and have a bard/warlock for when we need to take a break from the main story. Outside of gaming I like photography, hiking, and being out in nature. Though I don't get out to do them as often as I'd like because of my work schedule. When it comes to music I mostly listen to rock/metal. Sleep Token is one of my favorite bands (been listening to them and saw them live before they got super popular :P ). Some of my favorite movies include LOTR trilogy, the first three Pirates of the Caribbean, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, and too many animated movies to list. My favorite snack... is probably ice cream, don't ask what my favorite flavor is, it changes too much lol. I rarely drink and don't smoke at all. When it comes to sexy time stuff, I'm more of sub. Though to be honest. Yeah sure things turn me on and there's things I'd like to possibly explore, and I might make sex jokes now and then ect, but I'm not sex driven. For me sex is a lot more about the emotional connection with my partner than anything else.
Just to double make sure it's clear, I'm not looking for any quick hook ups. My goal here is to find a close friend that I can connect with, talk to, hang out with and do things with who's little friendly but have more in common than just wearing nappies or sipping from a bottle. To be honest my little side is a pretty intimate thing for me so it'll probably take me some time for me to be comfortable enough showing that side of me. If we get that close I'm not really picky whether you're a little or cg. Having a cg sounds sweet, but I'm aware the reality of how many cg's there are is more limited. If you've made it this far hopefully this means you'd like chat, if so feel free to send me a dm :)
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