This is probably a shot in the dark. I'm going to be honest and upfront.

Let's start with the ugly basics. I recently graduated with my master's degree in creative technologies and a bachelor's in game design. Right now, I'm barely making bills with my art and writing. In a few months, I'm out of my lease and have nothing tying me to where I am. I can do my work anywhere I have power and internet.

I consider myself a non-binary-female caregiver. This means in practicality that I vary in how I dress at home between male and female. I'm overweight but working on it. I need to exercise more. My hobbies are mostly board and card games, though I dabble in many creative fields, from music composition to vinyl decals to role-playing games like D&D. Yes, I'm a nerd.

Before anyone considers me lacking in self-confidence, I'm often told I'm the opposite: arrogant and condescending. I'll admit to the latter and, as such, am trying to attempt to seem humble. The things I am good at, I'll admit to. The things I'm not, I own up to.

I'm not good at approaching women. I'm scared that someone's going to accuse me of harassing them when all I'm trying to do is start a conversation or compliment them.

Now the good. At least, I hope the good.

I'm looking for a woman who is looking for a caregiver in their forties. Someone who is looking for a partner that can be emotionally supportive. Someone who can appreciate them for who they are, both as a grown-up and as a little. I don't need someone who can relocate. I'm quite capable and willing to move elsewhere. I'd love to know about your hobbies and plans for your future, learn about your past, and be the one you can confide in about your future. I'm hoping to find someone mature enough (ironic given the ad location) to know that ABDL is just part of life.

Before anyone asks, I do not have any issues with having an adult baby who is trans. Due to trauma in my past, if you don't look female, it won't likely work. I don't like masculine-looking people touching me and that includes a hug or more than a handshake or fist bump. I just can't.

I can barely support myself, so if you're looking for a caregiver who can take care of you, please look elsewhere.

If, after reading this wall of text, you're still interested, please message me. If, after chatting a bit, you feel it's not a good fit, please tell me instead of ghosting me. I will respect your decision, but it feels awful when people simply stop talking and ghost me.