Good afternoon!

I’m not looking for your typical DDLG or MDLB dynamic. I’m more of DL than an AB, but I still have a little bit of AB deep down. I’m not really interested in BDSM or TPE or 24/7… is anyone else sick of the acronyms and loaded language? 😅.

We can’t even agree what half of these terms mean! Why can’t we just speak clearly without the labels?

Anyways. I’m 28. I’m looking for a long term and monogamous relationship with someone sweet and soft, who accepts me for everything that I am, and supports my habits and comforts. That’s it! 😂

That’s the goal here. If you can make it that far, you’re golden pony boy.

I’m here looking for love. I don’t care if you wear diapers or don’t. I don’t care if you’re a mommy or switch or whatever. Be yourself. Don’t tell me who you want to be or who you think you are. Tell me who you are 🥰.

I wear diapers. I’ve always loved them because they’re squishy and comfortable and it’s definitely a huge kink. I am incontinent, and my diapers are here to stay. This is both a curse and a blessing in my eyes. I like it when other people wear diapers too. I like all kinds of diaper play, but none of it is mandatory ☺️. All I ask when it comes to diapers: you support and accept me ❤️.

I also have some little tendencies, but I’m not at all comfortable calling myself a “little” or an “adult baby.”

For example, I’m still a big fan of my Blankie. I’m overly attached to Blankie, frankly 🙈.

Another example: I love cartoons, including Bluey. It’s nice to shut my brain off and enjoy something so cute and peaceful and sweet. I occasionally wear footed sweatpants. Not footed pajamas. Footed sweatpants .x.

Beyond that, I’m a bit of a control freak in all aspects of my life 😬. I like to be in charge of my environment. That doesn’t mean that I don’t listen and I don’t want my partners input! I very much want you to be happy too 👍. I want both of us to be the happiest possible, and I’m definitely the kind of person willing to make sacrifices in order to make a relationship work 🥰.

I like molding and guiding people. I find that my friends all come to me for advice! I enjoy stuff like little reminders and sweet gestures. Did you drink water today? I’m worried about you? What can I do to help?

Are you prepared to answer questions like that? 🥰

I DO NOT want to be a caregiver. I want you to retain enough independence to take care of yourself. I work. I have friends and a life. I don’t really want the burden of making every decision for someone. I just want to be included in their world. I want to share my world with them. I’m open to the idea of rules and punishment for both of us, but only in specific situations. 🤔. There doesn’t need to be a power exchange.

I’m a mix of a homebody and an outdoorsy person 🎒. I don’t like bars or clubs. I’ve never been to a concert, but I’m open to it. I read a lot. I write a lot too! If I’m ever not responding, I’m probably typing away in my little world 📝. Personality wise, I’m a bit of a hippy. I go hiking and travel a lot. I love being in nature. I love challenging adventures. I’m just as much interested in exploring and facing hard challenges as I am laying in bed and doing nothing 🛌.

I have no problem speaking directly or talking about my feelings and boundaries. I will always listen to you when you do the same. I just ask that we do vocalize things to one another, clearly and without passiveness. Let’s be vulnerable and open and honest!

I’m willing to send a picture if you aren’t a creep. I’m 5’7 and 135lbs. I work in the trades and do pretty well. I’ll be buying a house soon! Im hygienic and tidy. I communicate well and I adore romance 🥰 .

I have a lot of experience dating within the ABDL community both as a dominant party and a submissive party. I want to throw the words “dominant” and “submissive” away forever 😮‍💨😅😡

If you would like to chat, please send me a DETAILED MESSAGE ABOUT YOURSELF. Low effort first messages will not be entertained.