FYI! I am not looking for a 24/7 little thing it's going to be we're going to have little days we're going to have regular days there's going to be a balance I'm saying this up front.. So that my potential Dom does not get mental burnout..

Hello I am kadessa!! nice to meet you

I am African American woman with a touch of cuban in mee.. 23 years old and single as a Pringle and thicker than a snicker

Yes I do like white men Its actually a preference for me I love em with a little fluff(not morbid obesity) but overall in shape and with a wonderful sense of humor confidence and honesty Demisexual Traditional strictly monogamous one on one love is all I need ✨❤️🧡💙🩵

I am about 5'9 tall pear-shaped plus size body broad shoulders brown hair brown eyes

I am currently job hunting

I am currently unemployed but I try to keep busy with the time I have and be very productive mostly cooking cleaning helping the family and interviewing finding work is hard but I'm trying my hardest okay!

Ive been living the DDLG/ABDL lifestyle been since 2020 if this isn't for you don't dm me please ..I want someone who's genuinely interested and wants a traditional lifestyle as well I will contribute ill cook clean and pick up a part time job if it's allowed..

How I got into it ABDL..(also I'm not attracted to switches if you are a switch do not DM me I want pure dom 100%, that's it you will not be acknowledged ill ignore and move on)

I've always been a natural sub first and foremost and I've already was into ddlg a little space for like several years before I even started dabbling in it

I will not submit to a complete stranger..y'all be dumb ASF my submission is earned through love and trust that's the only way

I came across a YouTuber who does abdl I'm like oh wow this is so freaking cute and wholesome I want to try this. I have just been hooked ever since it's not sexual it's never been sexual and just a way for me to have fun relax and destress you know it's my safe space and I just want to share that with somebody and have someone who accepts me fully for who I am..

strictly monogamous one on one love for this girl demisexual I do not share I'm not into that idea will not make exceptions. I am looking for a serious relationship, starting as friends first and building a healthy foundation first before anything else romantic cuz it's a wonderful starting point ..

If I date someone it's for love not sex..ill date for marriage like a normal person..

I want someone who is yes going to be a daddy/pleasure Dom but also we click on other things outside of fetish I wanna know what motivates you,inspires you to get out of bed every morning

I wanna be able to talk to you like anyone else I dont give a damn about what's in your pants..

I want a man that's not selfish and actually cares about a woman's pleasure fully not just himself that's unattractive and rude

Aftercare is so damn important to me and foreplay is also mandatory practice what you preach I cannot enjoy it if my partner isn't and vice versa that's who I am..work for it

There is more to me than kink I am a human being a person I have emotions and feelings I'm not a fantasy or a pornstar lol

Personality wise: rambunctious, blunt,goofy,very open minded outgoing,sweet,layed back,loving can be pretty direct from time to time and all around im super fun to be around and can be a possible clinger and can make friends with everybody

Religion: I am not but if you are, I will respect you and support you 👍just don't try to forcibly convert mee. I don't smoke.

I am 420 friendly 🌱💨 I do drink socially

What I do for fun in my free time🌱💚⭐🔥💥

Watching anime playing video games reading manga,hiking swimming, watching movies going outside and playing with the animals,karaoke,thrift shopping

I had my tubes fully removed,that being said pregnancy will not be a risk with me.. I do not want children

I want someone that stick by my side and be loyal for years to come

I want something real.

I like to have stability in my life, emotional, spiritual and physical..

There will be safe words and limits in place for my own safety. CONSENT MATTERS..

Don't be fake be genuine with me.. if I don't like you I'll tell you and move on peacefully

Communication 😎😎😎

I like to have open communication openly discussing problems being directly honest with each other at all

no hiding, no lies, no sneaking around

Just be open and honest

Talking through problems is just a way of life...if there's something that needs to be said just say it I do love phone calls just love it,I actually prefer it

My Love language👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩❤️‍🔥😻, physical touch ,acts of service, is how I show my affection to my partner and quality time is always lovely

My man will be treated like royalty 🫂❤️‍🔥💋

If you read all of this please dm me, Introduce yourself tell me about yourself tell me why I should be interested? advertise yourself !! make me interested what do you bring to the table if I just see hi.. I'm going to ignore you

If you read this far congrats heres a star ⭐