Hello, so I am looking for someone that I can connect with both in and out of kink. A little about me, I am a bit of a homebody and favor a quiet night in with a good meal and a good movie or show, but I do like to go out and do things like bowling, playing pool, taking in a show, and exploring new places to eat. My hobbies include writing short stories/roleplay on Tumblr, painting with oils on canvas, video games (I’m a huge video game nerd lol), and lastly working with my hands so always doing some sort of home improvement project around my house. I love the cooler weather so the fall and winter months are my favorite, this summer business here in El Paso is just so out of control lol. Something about being cozy in front of a fireplace and a warm blanket while it rains or snows out is just so appealing to me. I am a tall hispanic man, I’m 6’3”, have black hair, and have a healthy build. I am looking for a partner to share in my life with, someone who is loyal and will be there in the good and bad times, someone that we can talk to each other about anything and everything and can connect with each other.
Kinkwise for me I am a switch ABDL, meaning that there are times that I wanna play the baby and times that I wanna play the daddy. As a baby I wanna be 6mo-18mos old. I wanna snuggle, play with legos or stacking blocks, and anything that would rattle and make noise. I love being baby talked to and cooed, I’m also very curious about adult breast feeding, I am totally ok with just dry nursing but would definitely want to know what it feels like. As much as I love wholesome nonsexual side of this kink I do also enjoy the sexual sides of this, so I love some bondage in the context of being helpless like strapped down to a crib or highchair, bondage mittens to make my hands useless, being talked down to and verbally and sexually teased, some light humiliation. I would like to at some point create a nursery in my home where I could play and have everything a big baby would want.
My daddy side is something that is relatively new, but I would love to explore it with the right person. I would love to spoil my baby girl and give her tons of forehead kisses, lots of snuggles, hold her bottle for her, play silly little baby games with her, feed her in a highchair, change her diapers (only the wet ones), and anything else my little one would want to do. I’m definitely a very caring person naturally so being a daddy would be a very natural thing to me I would think, as I would be new to this I am willing to learn and learn what my baby girl would want. I would be open to anything sexual that my partner would want be it in ABDL or not.
I’d love to have a dynamic with someone but more so would want that companionship with someone, to share my life with someone. To care about them and they care about me, she would be my partner in life and we would be there for each other no matter what is going on. I hope this reaches the right person and I hope I sound like someone that you’d want to try and see where things go with. My DMs are open if you wanna talk, I promise I dont bite, I am very nice :) Hope you are having a great day and hope we can have a conversation if youre interested.