Basics

• Height: 5'8"
• Race: Caucasian (and pale as fuck tbh)
• Eyes: blue
• Hair: brown
• Body type: athletic
• Occupation: software engineer
• Sexuality: straight/demisexual
• Role: switch

Body pics: https://imgur.com/a/hXZC2lN

Note: To be transparent, the first picture is under ideal conditions with a pump, flexing, and good lighting. I'm not quite that big or vascular all the time. Most of the time I just look like a pretty muscular guy. That one is a progress picture since I lost 25 lbs last year. I don't normally take a ton of shirtless mirror selfies.

Personality and Hobbies

• I'm very active and live a pretty healthy lifestyle overall. I primarily lift weights and run, but I'm trying climbing, boxing, yoga, and additional classes. I'd like to try archery too. I'm not a freak of nature, but I'm decently strong.
• I like to cook and I'm decent at it. I meal prep and make most of the food I eat, but I make it a point to try out new restaurants once or twice a week. And I like to cook for other people too as a way of showing my affection, so you can consider that a bonus. Here's some food porn of stuff I've made
• I enjoy making coffee and especially espresso as a hobbyist. I love trying out new cafes too.
• My main love language is physical touch. I will probably try to physically merge with you and assimilate into you on an atomic level with the intensity of my cuddles. Just accept it. Also my body runs like a furnace. I could probably survive the cold of space with my body heat alone.
• I'm very driven when I have a goal I want to achieve. I won a transformation award at my gym last year because I lost 25 lbs and got my current physique.
• I enjoy traveling. I spent a lot of time last year traveling to different cities to decide on which one to move to, and I had a fun time in each. I've been to Europe a few times too and loved it, and I intend to go to Japan at some point.
• I occasionally watch anime and play some video games, and I'm pretty familiar with a lot of nerd culture
• I have a lot of trouble approaching in person. Hence why I'm looking online 😅

My Ideal Relationship

• Long term. I'm also open to just friendship, and I would prefer we get to know each other as friends first in any case
• Romantic. I would want to be a good boyfriend in addition to a good boy
• Monogamous
• Strong preference for in person, but open to starting online as long as we can arrange relatively frequent visits and you're open to relocating. I just moved here, I love this city, and I would really rather not relocate myself as a result. That being said, I can travel to meet up; I just wouldn't want to be the only one doing it.

My Ideal Person

• Kind and gentle. The gentleness of the dynamic is probably my biggest reason I like it so much.
• Ideally pretty active too. You don't have to take it to the same level I do, but it would be nice to share some hobbies
• Being somewhat adventurous is a big plus
• Kink-wise, I would love either a mommy or a switch, but I'm open to a little too as long as you have an interest in trying out the mommy side. I love it when mommies wear diapers too, but that's just a bonus. I've given a little her first diaper change and a mommy her first experience with a little and remained friends with both. Your level of experience does not matter as long as you're interested in trying. Let's have fun with this together :)

Favorite Kinks

• ABDL, MDlb, and DDlg - I go through phases of leaning more towards the daddy side, but I've been feeling more little lately. As a little, I'm very sweet and clingy, but I can be what my friends call a little shit. I don't push buttons or try to hurt or annoy anyone, but I like to gently tease. As a daddy, I'm very gentle and patient, but I do have a slight sadistic streak.
• Pegging
• Spanking - especially OTK and barehanded
• Teasing
• TPE
• Orgasm control/denial

I generally like to give what I like to receive

Hard Limits

• Anything illegal
• Anything that exposes non-consenting people to kink
• Anything excessively dangerous. For me, this would currently include fire play and blood play since I have no experience with them, though I am open to learning about them.
• Findom
• Forced bi
• Urethral sounding (receiving in particular)
• Cuckolding

I'm generally open-minded. If it's something that's not in my hard limits, I'm probably willing to give it a try. I love pleasing my partner and doing stuff they think is hot, so ask away :) I'm generally not into hard dynamics like master/slave on either end. I'm willing to give them a shot, but I much prefer something gentle.

What I Can Provide

• I'm very affectionate. I have so much love to give and no one to receive it.
• I have a good sense of humor once I get comfortable.
• I'm pretty intelligent. Book smarts aren't everything, but I have a decent list of academic achievements from when I peaked in college and I graduated two years early to give you an indication.
• I've been told by multiple people that I'm good-looking. A girl who had a crush on me once told me I looked like an elf, and I've just fervently hoped she meant the Tolkien kind and not the Santa's helper kind. Though I was wearing my jingly shoes that day... 🤔
• I'm stable, calm, empathetic, and patient.
• I'm a clear communicator.
• I have an extremely cuddly fluffy cat who I treat like a princess. She is quite literally on my lap as I type this (https://imgur.com/a/Ff4jxuT)
• I'm financially very responsible and do pretty well for myself (though I am absolutely not interested in any sort of sugar relationship)
• I've got my life figured out. I don't need someone to come in and save me. I have a good job, hobbies, and an overall good social life with close friends and a family I'm very close to. I'm just missing a relationship.
• Did I mention the cat?

Communication/Logistics

• I prefer to start in reddit chat. Just saying "hey" doesn't give me much to work with, so I'd love it if you told me what in particular drew you in.
• Open to sharing face pics when we've talked for a little bit. I'd like for both of us to verify at that point as well.
• I strongly prefer video calls and voice calls over texting, especially for more serious talks or any long distance play. Ideally I would like to call in some way at least every couple of days when life allows.