flair is deceiving!! i am attracted to feminine gendered people, and feminine looking/expressing people. i would consider myself a lesbian. 🏳️‍🌈

so my gf ( bless her soul <3 ) isn't exactly into messing ( valid, not everyone has to be interested in what i am and forcing it onto others brings us both nowhere but to somewhere not good ) and we both are exploring non monogamy so i'm seeking fellow feminine DLs native to the london area to befriend, potentially with benefits? or more? 👀 but tbh if we do or don't ( have benefits ) that's alright, just communicate with me in advance your intentions :).

so, let's learn more about me shall we?

( for my physical appearance, if curious, please go to r/diaperpics or the subreddit dedicated to diapers under clothing. my hair btw actually tends to be poofier, i comb it a lot and when i shampoo and condition, once it dries and ive continuously combed it? ommph! ✨ )

first off, i've been on estrogen since october 12th of last year!! prior to that i was on spironalactone, i started the 24th of february, last year. it feels good 🏳️‍⚧️! i'm a creature of the tism i suspect, but i'm undeniably neurodivergent. i'm a stoner too, and i usually smoke either daily or every other day or two, y'know 🌿🚬🌬️ ( do not be fooled, i do not smoke popper. also ask me about my bong!! ). as for my personality?

i have been described as a golden retriever around those i really like. i very much believe in the absence of hierarchies, i loooove experimenting with fashion and creating my own outfits out of the clothing i have, or what i find :). i connect best with others by just connecting on what mutual interests we have in common and building a connection from there. otherwise, struggles in neurodivergent and not understanding social cues.

whenever im out about on my own, i looove taking photos of things that catch my eye. like, i mean, ill take photos of stickers that are on shit, animals, things out of the ordinary to me, buildings, etc! i very much am someone to try and understand the world around me, and i like to help others through giving advice, validating them or giving advice based on my experiences. i loooove going on adventures and exploring the world around me and learning about things! but i also get overstimulated easily, so i usually have to wear ear plugs in public unless my existance be burdened by all the many variables beyond my control in the world.

i would say i have an acquired taste in my sense of humour. don't ask me about it, im horrid at being put on the spot. i can have some extremely dark humour. also dark humour is not offensive humour!! thx. humour that offends or hurts other isn't a joke. be nice, have your intentions clear and be genuine. hobby stuff! other than what ive mentioned, i like to creatively write about my characters and their interesting and entertaining adventures across skyrim, i play competitive pokemon on pokemon showdown, specifically gen 1 random battles ( and I'm damn good too! on the ladder of the top 500, i managed to climb my way to 81 at my peak this far!!!! #gottacatchemall ).

i am a dominant force of nature in mario kart 8 deluxe, i like watching the content creators i watch on youtube, feel free to ask who, i will give you a whole ass list, i like playing all the other games on my switch, i value being politically active, and actively want to be doing more, and i very much am anti-capitalist, and believe that people exist just as nature does, and our value has never come from feeding the system of capitalism.

yeah, ig that's stuff about me! if any or all this intrigues you, well, i think you know what to do. also, two final notes - i prefer if you're closer in age to me, and obviously, i come with additional accessories not mentioned, as do all humans ✨. looking forward to making connections with other humans!!!