Hi everyone! I haven’t posted in awhile so I thought I’d try again! I’m Jax, I’m 32, non-binary and gender fluid (but assigned male at birth) and I live in the Central Coast region of CA! I am a switch in the ABDL lifestyle and I am seeking a little to be a caregiver or babysitter to, a caregiver or babysitter for myself, and/or a little friend/sibling/playmate! I am interested in meeting anyone besides cis men, so in other words, I would love to meet cis or trans women, trans men, other non-binary or gender fluid folks, and beyond!

As a little, I strongly identify as being made of “sugar, spice and everything nice”… I love everything girly and I love feeling like a little princess! I love my “little corner” with my tent/fort, my stuffies, coloring and drawing, arts and crafts, dressing up cute and getting dolled up, wearing diapers and pull-ups, and more! I can be really sweet but also super bratty if I don’t get what I want! I use diapers, pull-ups and my training potty 100% of the time at home (unless I have an accident in my pants!) and I use diapers and pull-ups for both peepee and poopies, just full disclosure on that!

As a caregiver, I love to come up with a list of rules along with my little, as well as rewards for following them and punishments for breaking them. Sometimes the punishments can be fun for both me and my little, so I don’t mind someone who’s not afraid to break my rules! But I am happy to caregive to both obedient and bratty littles. I can take on a masculine or feminine caregiver role depending on my little’s preference, but I default to a non-binary role.

I am also VERY open to having little friends/siblings/playmates, and interested in dynamics such as an older little/middle babysitting or taking care of a younger little. In fact, it almost sounds more fun to me than a traditional caregiver/little relationship! And I can think of so many fun scenarios with this dynamic, such as playing “house”, treating another little as a doll, bullying a peer for having accidents, etc!

Ideally, I’m looking for something IRL with someone who lives within a reasonable distance from me! Anywhere in Santa Cruz, Monterey, or San Luis Obispo (SLO) counties in CA is ideal, but I could travel as far as the San Francisco (SF) Bay Area, Los Angeles (LA), maybe Central Valley locations such as Fresno, Sacramento, Bakersfield, or even the North Bay or San Diego (SD) as well! (Intentionally long list to show up in search results). I am open to online stuff too but much prefer in-person. I have no age preference aside from 18 so I am happy to meet just about anyone besides cis men!

Thanks for reading and please comment or message if you’d like to get to know each other. Hopefully talk to you soon!