Please read before messaging me and introduce yourself genuinely,catch my attention keep me engaged entertained,from the start... Show me you want to get to know me...
Hello! I am Chocobaby A single 23yr black woman,I am also a adult baby/submissive
Lost 24lbs since late Dec still becoming a better me still on a weight loss journey
I am interested in a man who is a healthy size or is working towards being healthy I want someone to be active with and enjoys exercising and eating remotely healthy and if necessary taking meds to help with mental health
I'm not into big men personal preference
(I do have autism, ADHD, anxiety's disorder the weird and crazy is a package deal
I am single NO COUPLES,NO POLY!! Monogamous I am located in Georgia I am demisexual, bisexual I have a full time job I work every day except Thursday and Friday working on saving up for a vehicle and working towards bettering myself everyday๐๐ซโจ๐ Hobbies: karaoke ,dancing,gaming, watching anime,thrift shopping,hiking, cooking and baking,drawing/coloring, swimming, camping (fun during summer)
FYI:I am a woman with a high sex drive that doesn't mean imma sleep around I have standards.. I don't mind sweet romantic vanilla sex but I'm just gonna be pretty frisky once I'm comfortable and trust you hold on to your seat belts I expect a man with similar energy Cuz I'd hate to be with someone who isn't able to keep up or just ain't a sexual person at all..
The bare minimum of what I'm looking for (have a full time job be employed have a vehicle please that's all I ask for my standards aren't high y'all Treat everyone the way you want to be treated and be engaging keep me interested in what's going on in your life etc
(Switches aren't attractive to me) I do not want to be a man's mommy,I am a submissive I will stick with a role im comfortable with.. I want a full Dom not a switch flip or a floater just a pure dominant man who has experience genuine.. I want a man who enjoys pleasuring his partner and communicates in the bedroom..
being kind to everyone around you,treat others with respect, communication and talking about problems know what your looking for this is very important...
I do not want children(deal breaker if you do) Deal breakers in general (no switches at all,no married folk,sex addicts unhealthy lifestyle smokers unemployed etc)
I am willing to come to you (fly out if planned ahead of time I expect the same from you either fly or drive Long distance isn't impossible you have to try and put it in a effort ..
BE consistent with communication 100% this a huge one for me I like talking throughout the day, phone calls video calls being able to hear that persons voice is endearing and something I look forward to and brighten up my day (If your working don't stress about responding right away) Sending me a voice note a text (I absolutely hate ghosting with a passion it's disrespectful and rude) I want to be a person's priority I want them to obsessed with me I want them to always be looking out for me and being there for me,supportive,vulnerable, comfortable talking about feelings I know it's a difficult
I am a very physically affectionate person I love giving hugs, kisses,back rubs, handholding etc to show my affection,I also like to show my affection through acts of service and I am a very caring sweet cinnamon roll๐๐ซ๐ซถ
I show my affection by occasionally getting gifts simple things nothing extravagant but I like to surprise my partner with special things from to w to time to show I appreciate them and love them
I do anything for the people I love and I will have boundaries set so I'm not taken advantage of my kind nature has limits
I am looking for someone who can provide, love,care for me and shower me with affection,stick with me through the good and bad things in life and commit
I'm wanting to date seriously and marriage be the end result and still be together for many years,I'm not interested in a fling,casual,or anything without labels if you are gonna be with me you need to commit ..or don't get me I need to click with you outside of kink it'll not be the main focus..
I want to be a safe space for that person , a shoulder they can cry in vent talk to no matter how ugly it gets and I want that person to do the same for me..
just making this clear I am a little that wears diapers if that's not your thing I'm not the one for you,you have to be into ABDL as a whole (okay with messing as well you want the full experience that's what it's gonna take)don't force yourself to like..
Diapers are not sexual for me and never will dont expect me to perform sexual acts diapered up it is gross and something I will not do...it weirds me out...diapers are purely regression items for me that is it..
I am still a human being at the end of the day not a fetish item... I also have other kinks and fetishes I'm into but that's for another time
Hoping to hear from someone soon dms are open
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