Heya folx! How's everyone's Feburary going? CAP is coming up and I hope to see some of you in town for it.

I'm an outgoing, friendly, and well established little in Chicago and looking to meet a very specific type of big in a reasonable area around me (Or one who visits frequently enough to make it a decent fling!)

For starters, let me get the me out of the way;

I'm 25 and a very eager and confident little guy. I'm pan, genderqueer, present masc, and I'm extremely non-monogamous. I am an ethically non-monogamous person and have both romantic and play relationships with many folx. These will likely not intersect with the relationship I'm talking about here unless it becomes quite involved. Come in with the expectation that you'll be sharing time with only me.

So what am I searching for?

Plainly speaking? I want a Big that wants to take a submissive and service oriented role in caregiving. Someone who wants to be bossed around by, given instruction from, or otherwise acts in accordance with what is told to them by their little. I want someone who is very much in tune with their caregiver space and wants to embody that energy.

So how does this benefit you? What do you get out of this?

Well, I'm a fiercely independent person outside of scenes. You don't have to worry about being saddled with any kind of baggage or neediness beyond the infantile indulgences we agree to. ABDL starts with A, I'm an adult first and all the BDL shennangins come afterward.

You'll get to enjoy the fulfilling sound of the giggles and the sight of a smiling little face without any of the extra guesswork or executive requirements usually found from being a caregiver. Perhaps you're a new caregiver who wants to enjoy all the aprons and baby powder but doesn't want to constantly be in charge? Or you're a veteran big who is tired of feeling like your little isn't communicating their needs? Well, I can potentially remedy that! So long as you don't mind your communication with a bit of snark and authority. :P

I'm here to make sure that the arrangement is fufilling for you as well as me. Whatever you need from a little one to ensure that you feel like your talents are appreciated and that you feel needed? It will be included and exuded to the best of my ability.

Sound like you? Well:

Message me here on Reddit or on Discord @ fig_newtons

Do NOT message me if:

You're a centrist or conservative politically.

You are not okay with ethical non-monogamy.

You are a professional service or soliciting paid services.