I am a Canadian citizen who is planning on moving to the United States in the near future and would like to settle down. I plan on joining the Army to earn my citizenship like any new immigrant should. I plan on having a 20 year career in the Army to earn a sizable pension and then create my own company and maybe even run for local office in my older years. In this time I would like to find a emotionally mature woman I can share my life with. (Please note that I am open to the idea of having children despite my interests).
If you are wondering yes I am an ABDL, I am a little and this is the first time I have ever said this publicly. (I got bullied a lot in school so I don't talk about it for fear of it getting out.) I am a little because of sad events in my past I do not want to get into publicly, and I enjoy doing it to cope. I would like a biological female that is understanding of my needs and likes to be affectionate and will treat me kindly. I would like a caregiver dynamic and please be aware that I am incredibly affectionate of those I am close to. I am a cuddle monster and probably one of the most considerate/caring individuals on the planet. If you choose me every day will be happy and sweet. I don't enjoy arguing for 2 reasons. 1 I don't like getting angry with those I care about. 2 I can sense the emotions in someone's voice and the expression written on their face and that has an emotional effect on me. If you are happy, then so am I. If you are sad, then so am I etc...
I am confident and bold when out in public and if you looked at me you would never tell that I belong to this community. I do this to maintain myself as a functional member of society and I prefer that my Big self and Little self do not mix. I get easily embarrassed in public and can be very shy. If anyone found out about my Little side in public I would probably bolt faster than an Olympic sprinter. π
My Little side is the complete opposite of my Big side and is very shy and submissive. If you get me too flustered I become almost completely non verbal. I am ok with a future caregiver setting up interactions with other littles. I do ask that no photos or videos be taken. In the very least I ask that my image be blurred in public use since I require my privacy.
It should be noted that I am political and am a Right Winger, aka a Republican. Like being a Little the life of a Republican chose me as well. I came from a family with strong moral beliefs and was raised as a centrist (aka neutral). Over the last 10 years my family values were pushed more into the right and I stand by my moral beliefs. Hate me if you want, I dont care because my mother raised me right. (This makes me easier to handle for a future caregiver, just saying). I am also well versed in many adult topics, so at least I'm not boring. (FYI I'm not little 24/7, it's more of a when I get time off sort of thing).
My little age is 1 - 5 and I usually enjoy typical Little activities. (Specifics can be discussed in private.) Note that sex in general is good and I do not restrict it during Little Space. If encouraged to engage in such activities I can pull myself out of the mindset at will without it being seen as negative. Please note that I am not looking for a hookup, but rather I am looking for a lifetime commitment. In my years alone I have realized that I want someone to hold, someone to cherish. I want to wake up next to the most amazing woman in the world every morning nuzzled in her warm embrace. The first thing I will think to myself every time I open my eyes is, "how did I get so lucky to meet someone this kind and amazing? "
I am a kind, caring individual who is insightful and looks out for others before himself. I am looking for a female who mirrors these traits and doesn't mind showering me in affection, kisses and cuddles. I grow attached very strongly which is why I am very particular about my partner. This also means I will never cheat on you. If I meet your criteria and you mine, please contact me with an American flag Emoji.
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