Hey everyone, just want to start this off by saying I'm picky with people, but I really want to put myself out there. Conventional dating has not been as opportunistic as I hoped. This is primarily looking for a partner but if it leads to some special friends, that ain't so bad. (this may be long, I hope to include TLDR at the end, sorry ahead of time if this is all over the place as I'm writing this in parts)

I have been invested for maybe over 5yrs but its been separate from my main life most of the time. There have been slight instances where I get the urge to commit to something and grow my confidence as well as add to my personal merit. But maybe that can come up in conversation DM's are open but I don't use this often, so answers will be delayed. Now lets get into it.

Me(sfw):

I'm 25 years old, 5'10, Caucasian, brown hair, blue eyes, lighter than expected Slim & Fit guy. I am a kind person, patient, genuine, intellectual most of the time, and will speaking my mind especially when some filters are dropped. Sometimes prickly, towards people I'm not meshing with, or others who agitate me. I like to think I'm sort of funny, honest, open, chill & cool person, and I seem to warm up once you get to know me. I enjoy Movies/Tv, anime, gaming, motorcycles, cars, animals, techy stuff, magnets, science, weed, gym, and many more (ask me about it). I live at home but moving out soon to get my own space and place where I don't have to deal with lack of privacy on a daily basis. I am the kind of person who likes to error on the side of caution in most aspects, but there is always chances where I'll take risks, and branch out more than I expect myself to (similar to this post). I work for a living, but one-day I'd like to retire early or start my own business separating myself from constant work, even if I am slightly workaholic. I workout often and pride myself in staying in shape, and putting on some muscle. If I'm not at the gym or working, I'm usually at home gaming, recharging & relaxing. My schedule kind of remains the same or is somewhat ridged and I'd for sure make some changes for the right person. (this is the end of mainly special friends section)

TLDR: chill, 420 friendly guy, fit & fun. (nsfw tldr too)

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personal preferences don't really apply above here, if we vibe, we are chill, and I'm down to hang and chat.
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further down is for someone who really wants to know about me sexually.

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more for Monogamy relationship

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me(nsfw):

I'm not a crazy sexual person, but I kind of expect it to come with a relationship with time, but not right away. I have read that demisexual is a thing, and I think I fall into some spectrum of it. I'd like to get to know someone a little before having any sexual interactions with them, as it is somewhat off putting. I usually like to feel out situations before diving in. I hope that we can be open and keep communication throughout a possible relationship. Time for some kinks & preferences. I'd eventually like a dynamic of some sort. I am not super experienced but I'd like to work on it. I am a straight male and intend to stay that way for the foreseeable future. I would consider myself as a switch as I may like some aspects of being subby for the right person but also like to keep control most of the time. So that is where the Soft Daddy Dom comes in, I'd like to care for someone but also not have it be one sided. On the kinky side, I am DL, so I do enjoy Diapers a little, so if that's a no, that's okay as long as it is somewhat accepted. On the other side I can keep it private but it'd be cool if you are okay with it. I have other kinks related but that can be discussed personally if you'd like. Limits are on scat, blood, harm, animals, but open to filling out one of those charts for people who want to know. Just ask, I am not here to hide things from a potential partner.

You:
Someone Genuine who possible shares in some interests of mine so we have common ground to build upon. Hopefully knows of the community or open to stuff. Someone who takes fitness into consideration. I'd like fitness to be part of your life, as it is a larger part of mine. Like I said I'm picky, I just want to get some things out of the way just incase. Please don't take it personal or be up in arms about it, as it is my preferences. I'm not interested in main dom, plus-sized/bbw, or trans women. Ideally I'd prefer a straight/bisexual woman. Switch, DL, Princesses AB, Littles, Middles, MD, Mommies, and more, just ask. Like I said before it would be a huge plus if you are accepting of kinky/abdl side of life as that will lessen how picky I am. Attractiveness is also a big part of finding someone, so I'd appreciate it if at some point photos are exchanged.

Hopefully you are within a couple of hours of NY, as I am not the greatest with LDR & am busy often. But if this remains online for the time being, just know I would like to meet up eventually.

Just know my main life takes precedence over anything online, the hope is to introduce this side & transform someone vanilla/kinky irl unless they have knowledge/acceptance, then even better.

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TLDR: I do enjoy DL, and would like someone in the community, but can put aside that part of me for a genuine relationship, but know I'd be exploring my desires, and I hope it is accepted.

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Sorry again if this is a mess, I am not the greatest with expressing my desires through text nor opening up to a community forum such as this. Please don't roast me for my preferences or awkwardness. But I do hope to meet some great people.