I am currently seeking a long-term, monogamous relationship with a likeminded girl. Online to start is completely fine, but ideally this will evolve into much more.

The basics: I am naturally a very caring, and loving Daddy type Dom. I enjoy supporting and nurturing good behavior and habits, speaking throughout every day, building a solid relationship based on similar interests, and eventually leaning into the more fetish-oriented dynamics. I am looking for a normal, loving relationship, with kinks heavily mixed in. I want to make you the center of my universe and work hard to earn your trust so that you are able to give yourself to me completely.

About me: 39/w/m. Single, never married, no children. Working in a satisfying but sometimes demanding career with a lot of flexibility, which affords me the ability to make my little/sub a top priority. I do not vanish for hours on end, and I expect you won't either. To me, being a Dom is all about love and respect. I can be firm when needed and enjoy many of the classic touchstones of a BDSM relationship, but lean heavily towards a caregiver role. Things should always be balanced including respect for each other, consideration of each others time and feelings, humiliations and praise, snuggles and rougher things. The bottom line is that I have a need to be needed. I will work very hard to give you every ounce of me that I can and earn your trust and respect in hopes that you will become very dependent upon me. There is no such thing as too needy in my opinion, and while I may be the one in charge, don't ever think that I am not just as dependent on you.

I like making distance feel like less if possible. Hand written letters and little care packages, planned dinner dates where we order the same takeout and watch a movie together, sharing each other's world with one another with lots of contact throughout the day.

About you: I have a few 'types' but nothing that isn't always evolving so I don't want to rule much out. Please be younger than me, and shorter than me (5'9"). Please be seeking something that could evolve into a serious long term relationship with the possibility of either visits or even a live-in situation. Please be wanting to remain monogamous.

I feel like the best way to explain what I'm truly seeking is to spell out an ideal Saturday;

- Breakfast at your favorite spot, followed by fun errands or some outside time, weather permitting. Back home for some shared interest activities: crafts, toe nail painting, board games, a long walk. spending the day together cute and cuddly and slowly transitioning that to an evening when I cook up dinner and pour some wine and then transition to things involving more sexual activities.

Let me pamper and baby you all day, and then use you up that night.

I do not rush into things, and will not be calling you pet names and making demands on our first messages back and forth. This is a process that takes time and I want to build something beautiful together and become each others entire universe. I'll list a few kinks below but that is another area of my interests that is ever expanding and changing.

-Feet (Prepare to have your toes painted, and feet loved on often)

-Rimming/anal play (giving - anal sex is not a dealbreaker, nor is penetration expected)

-Orgasm control and forced orgasms

- Body writing

- Outfit control

- Light bondage (Restraints, blindfolds, etc)

- Some very light humiliation/degradation when the mood calls for it (infrequently)

- Free use/CNC (I want to own you always)

- Anything else that's important to you is always on the table. I don't shy away from much so if it interests you, let's give it a try.

If you've made it this far, thank you for your time and I cannot wait to meet you.