Hello, All.

I am currently seeking an eventual long-term, monogamous relationship with a likeminded girl. Online to start is completely fine, but ideally this will evolve into much more. The basics: I am naturally a very caring, and loving Daddy type Dom. I enjoy supporting and nurturing good behavior and habits, speaking throughout every day, building a solid relationship based on similar interests, and eventually leaning into the more fetish-oriented dynamics. I am looking for a normal, loving relationship, with kinks mixed in. I want to make you the center of my universe and work hard to earn your trust so that you are able to give yourself to me completely.

About me: 39/w/m. Single, never married, no children. Working in a satisfying but sometimes demanding career with a lot of flexibility, which affords me the ability to make my little/sub a top priority. I can't expect you to not vanish on me for 3 hours without warning, if I would do that to you, myself. To me, being a D/d is all about love and respect. I can be firm when needed and enjoy many of the classic touchstones of a BDSM relationship, but lean heavily towards a caregiver role. Things should always be balanced including respect for each other, consideration of each others time and feelings, humiliations and praise, snuggles and rougher things. The bottom line is that I have a need to be needed. I will work very hard to give you every ounce of me that I can and earn your trust and respect in hopes that you will become very dependent upon me. There is no such thing as too needy in my opinion, and while I may be the one in charge, don't ever think that I am not just as dependent on you. About you: I have a few 'types' but nothing that isn't always evolving so I don't want to rule much out. Please be younger than me, and shorter than me (5'9"). Please be seeking something that could evolve into a serious long term relationship with the possibility of either visits or even a live-in situation. Please be wanting to remain monogamous. Please be willing to verify your identity shortly after we being speaking (a simple hand-written note with some part of you is fine) - Do not expect me to demand or even ask for naked pictures of you. I feel like the best way to explain what I'm truly seeking is to spell out an ideal Saturday; - Breakfast at your favorite spot, followed by fun errands or some outside time, weather permitting. Back home for perhaps some 'little' type activities (crafts, toe nail painting, etc), spending the day together cute and cuddly and slowly transitioning that to a evening involving more sexual activities. Let me pamper and baby you all day, and then use you up that night before returning to being babied for bed time.

I do not rush into things, and will not be calling you pet names and making demands on our first messages back and forth. This is a process that takes time and I want to build something beautiful together and become each others entire universe. I'll list a few kinks below but that is another area of my interests that is ever expanding and changing. -Feet (Prepare to have your toes painted, and feet loved on often) -Rimming/anal play (giving - anal sex is not a dealbreaker, nor is penetration expected) - Light bondage (Restraints, blindfolds, etc) - Some very light humiliation/degradation when the mood calls for it (infrequently) - Free use/CNC (I want to own you always) - Little things: This is an area I am very open to and is more curated to your interests, not mine. Nothing is off the table.

If you've made it this far, thank you for your time and I cannot wait to meet you.