Hi I'm Nezhara but you can call me Nez!
I am looking for someone who is also looking for a forever partner and NOT a hookup! Not necessarily looking for someone local as I want to move west in the near future!
TLDR: I am an introverted fairly vanilla guy who's a DL who is down to try most things at least once. Looking for a female DL who is of similar lifestyle, interests, and goals and who is relatively fit.
More about me: I am a 27-year-old DL I have an interest in photography, watching VTubers, firearms, anime, video games, art, technology, and hopefully getting into overlanding/ vehicle camping/ hiking soon! I hold more Christian and libertarian/conservative values although I definitely wouldn't really call myself a Christian, I don't go to church or anything don't really know if I believe in God to be honest but I do believe in a lot of the values that are taught. I am a 5’ 3’’ 135-pound with a pretty lean build and am working on getting into better physical shape, I have long brown hair with that Vegeta hair line with blueish green eyes. I'm pretty introverted which has kept me from ever dating so this is my first forea into relationships/dating, I am a virgin and a little awkward at first but once I get to know you a little I can talk to you for hours. I live with my parents while saving up for my own home which seems to get harder every day I graduated in 2021 with a bachelor's degree in Visual communication design, and an associate degree in art, and recently got my A certification as I am switching careers to get into IT!
Some of my future/life goals are: Move to the more western part of the USA (Idaho, Colorado, Washington State, Utah, Wyoming, Montana etc) Live semi-off-grid/ be moderately self-sustaining Get a job as an Azure Cloud administer/ Azure Cloud cybersecurity role Start overlanding and traveling to see more of the Country Have a few kids at some point Travel to most/ all national parks
Key things that matter to me in a wife: Having some similar interests/hobbies I refuse to live in the state of California, it's beautiful and I would love to visit(anywhere that isn't a city) but I can't stand to live there. Not overweight or working on losing weight (I have seen what being obese/ overweight does to you not only as you get older but also when you are young it is a problem in my family you DO NOT need to be super skinny just conscious about your health and working towards being healthier) Need to be OK with guns being in the house Wanting to be self-sufficient Wanting to have kids at some point Don't really have a good way of putting this but being private, not posting lewd/exposing/suggestive pics of yourself online for clicks or money. Call me old fashioned but I think there is value in having some self-worth and not selling your body to people both IRL or online
Things I'm pretty neutral on: Being a CG if that's something you are looking for. I don't have a problem playing a CG role from time to time. I won't lie and pretend that I know fully what all people look for in a CG but doing things from changing you, being someone you can lean on, and someone who can listen and give you advice are definitely things I can do, although these all feel like like things that a good husband/boyfriend should be doing anyway. Being Little I don't really have a particularly hard stance on this, things like bottles, pacifiers, stuffed animals, coloring books, watching kids shows, and onesies don't bother me in the slightest. Being AB I have a little bit more of a stance on this. Nothing against AB’s but it kind of makes me uncomfortable it would have to be something we talk through it could just be that I don't understand it enough. However, I really don't like things like baby talk (like slurring words on purpose or just not using words at all to communicate), rooms dedicated to being nurseries, cribs, and baby toys.
Kinks I am down to try almost anything at least once! Diapers aren't really sexual for me. Definitely think they look cute/ attractive but if it is a sexual thing for you I don't think it is something that will bother me.
There are some Kinks/things that I am NOT okay with in the slightest Cuckholding chastity Humiliation Anything involving other people
If you think we align on anything feel free to send me a DM! Im pretty open to most things and having a conversation about what you are looking for could shape or change how I feel about something so don't be afraid to just ask
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