Hi there! I'm trying a bit of a new approach this time, it seems most people are looking for either a daddy or a little only, but I believe sharing a bit more about myself might just be the key to making a meaningful connection😊

Big & Little, I'm a switch!Age / Little age: Age-wise, I'm a balanced blend of 30 and 2, although it occasionally shifts depending on the depth of my regression.Area: The NetherlandsLocal or Online? Local, or at least local enough in my country is preferable, although if there's a chance at a good connection I don't mind talking online first to see where that leads.Relocating an option?: NopeInterests: Writing stories, working out, boardgames, moviesComfort items?: Pacifiers, bottles, diapers, plushies, sippy cups, blankiesIs this sexual for you? It mostly isn't as it is as much a de-stressor as it is a coping mechanism. However, I recognise the sensual sides as a CG and Little. A genuine connection is what matters most to me, so with the right person it could be.
Love languages?: Time and attention, touch and affection, acts of service, memes ;P

About me:I'm in a constant tug-of-war between my outgoing side, always seeking adventures, and my inner homebody who thrives on cuddles and cozy moments. Honestly, I can't pick a side because both are the best. For me, reality can sometimes feel like a heavy coat, and I'm the type who loves to shed it using any creative medium available. Diapers for me have become that part where I can simply let go of the daily stress and find that elusive feeling of comfort and familiarity. Something we often miss in our adult lives, at least I in mine.

I'm a switch and I have experience with both sides as a CG and Little within ABDL. Right now I'm in a vulnerable stage of my life so my little tendencies are a bit more present and need attention, though that doesn't mean I can't be giving. What sets me apart is my deeply non-judgmental outlook on life. Acceptance is my currency, and I'm always eager to extend it to others. When I'm big I am very direct in my communication, very open and can talk about anything. Beneath it all, I have a sensitive soul but I know exactly what I want and what I can offer. That is as a big, as a little I can sometimes be nonverbal so that is important to understand.

Also good to mention is that I live on my own and I have many other interests such as going to the gym, hiking, watching movies and some very nerdy (big) hobbies. So you could say I'm a very social guy with lots of things going on besides this wholesome lifestyle quirk.

As a big I tend more towards affectionate- & soft-domination. I tend to be the gentle and tender type, but don't mistake that for an inability to be firm when the situation calls for it. Flexibility is my forte, after all.

Little me:As mentioned above my little age is 2 but depending on the interaction, environment and of course how I feel will influence it. When I feel vulnerable, which happens sometimes as I can be sensitive is when my feelings of regression come to the front the most.My ittle side seeks comfort, security and nurturing care which is why I find happiness in soft textures, sweet and wholesome interactions and familiar routines like using a pacifier, cuddling with stuffed animals or wearing diapers. It's the feeling of being wrapped in a warm, cozy blanket, both figuratively and literally.

It is a side of me I have developed as a coping mechanism from childhood experiences, particularly moments of feeling forgotten and abandoned. It's a part of me which longs for warmth and attention which has been lacking during those times. Neglect and the silent treatment don't work for me and are big red flags.

When I'm in my littlespace I enjoy activities like drawing and cuddling as I find these activities help me relax and de-stress. It helps me unwind and find the inner peace I crave. And let's not forget my deep desire to interact, it's a heart-warming invitation to share my special world with someone who understands.

What do I want:I am looking for a caring, comforting, loving and accepting person. The best match would be if you had switch tendencies as well. It is the intimacy from the type of relationship Md/lb & Dd/lg that I enjoy the most. Of course I have preferences, but I have no judgement and I hope you are the same.

The Ideal Mommy:My ideal mommy would be someone who embraces my little side too and understands that it is a part of a greater whole, me. Someone who embodies qualities of unconditional love and understanding, providing a safe and comforting space for me to express my littlespace. Has a (natural) ability to provide that care whether through soft spoken words, playtime, cuddles or creating a warm and inviting environment which is important. Somebody who possesses a deep sense of empathy and understanding who recognises that my littlespace is part of a healing journey, often stemming from past experiences. She encourages open and honest conversations but understands that conversations may stumble in the soft glow of littlespace. Somebody who listens to my needs and emotions without judgement, a skill that makes me feel not just heard but genuinely seen. I'd love for somebody who is patient and playful and respects and accepts me for who I am. That is also part of what I can offer, and it would certainly help if you like to switch too so I can express my need to care too.

Most importantly, above all my ideal mommy cherishes the person I am, in both my adult and little state.

The Ideal Little:Exploring the flip side of the coin, my dream Little is someone who wants to incorporate playtime into daily life and truly make it a lifestyle with charming and strict little rules and routines. They need to be capable of expressing their needs and desires (albeit verbally or by using a chart / cards / lists / stickers). She is a little who is clingy, needy and doesn't mind receiving constant attention, questions and check-ups (both physical and mental), however can indicate boundaries. Ideally, somebody who is an ABDL too who uses pacis and diapers, and is willing to explore with the right person.In summary, a sweet, playful little with an accepting and cuddly personality who wants to explore the lifestyle, and ideally likes to switch things around sometimes.

Are looks important?I am quite an active person as I work out regularly, however I find a mental connection most important. Somebody who is committed to bettering themselves, whether it's in body or mind, is the kind of person who piques my interest.

What age range are you looking for?23 – 35, please respect my wishes as I respect yours.

If you read this all the way through, first of all thanks! If this speaks to you and you'd like to get in contact you could include the word 'lion' as it is my favourite animal but I will also know that you did not only read everything, but also care enough to show me that you did.

Beyond myself:So far, this post has been about what I'm searching for, but I'm equally eager to learn about you. Your story, your quirks, your passions. I'm genuinely interested in you and all the splendid details that make you, you😊