Hi! I’m going to start this by saying I’m from South Africa, moving to the uk in April 2024 it looks like I also won’t be replying to any low effort dms such as “hi”. I’m also looking for this to move to an irl relationship at some point, so I would really like it if you were from the uk! I don’t mind where. Anyway I’m saying this at top so you can decide if you want this but I want a normal girlfriend and boyfriend relationship and then kink being done with sex (obviously you will have some control as well being outside of kink but I’d still like to keep 85% of it with kink) I don’t enjoy dynamics that revolve around only kink.

I’ve been part of this community for longer than I should’ve been but I’ve hardly had luck finding the right daddy. About me: I am curvy with a tummy so someone who ideally likes that but is okay I am loosing some weight, I have brown hair and green eyes. I’m naturally a childish and bubbly person outside of the kink world but with all that comes to a very traumatised person who does have unmedicated bpd (borderline personality disorder), an anxious attachment style, abandonment issues, jealousy issues, trust issues and a few more things so if you reach out please be willing to learn, understand and be patient with me as my mental health isn’t the greatest. I also age regress and like the idea of wearing diapers which is non sexual and a way I can heal my inner child in a safe way so please be willing to help out with that and actually encourage the regression. I absolutely love reading romance books and I’m currently studying zoology. I currently have 2 tattoos so please be okay with me getting more and actually like tattoos as well as smoking weed! I’m a major lover girl (comes with my bpd) and I’ll absolutely adore you no matter what. I’m a very clingy little girl so you will be getting millions of messages while you’re busy ❤️

About you: I’m looking for someone genuine, caring and taller than me! (I’m 5’3) I don’t mind level of experience as long as you understand my age regression isn’t sexual. I’m looking for someone who is okay with a slight brat and is dominant yet feels safe ti be around. Physically I don’t mind what you look like but if you’re a tall brunette with brown eyes you get brownie points. Ideally I’d like you to be from 20-23. I would like someone with lots of patience and is willing to explore new things with me, please also be a bit of a sadist. Please make sure you are able to make time for me, will adore me like I adore you, please also be okay with calls since I love those. Someone who’d take me shopping for stuffies, aquarium dates, zoo dates and so much more! I’d like it if you were as obsessed with me as I would be with you and would be willing to show me off, post me or whatever, will praise me every time I do something well, playfully bully me, will check on me randomly and will overall adore me like I’ll adore you.

Kink related: I’m definitely a very subby girl who when gets flustered stumbles and blushes and is unable to really speak but sometimes I do have a little mouth on me. I will list a few of my kinks but we can go into detail in private. I’m into impact play (soft-medium), chocking, CNC, praise and degradation.

My hardest limit is 24/7, TPE and anything where I have to give up most control (out side of kink) as I can’t do this due to what seems to be triggering my ptsd of a past terrible dynamic. I do look forward from hearing from you! I promise I’m a sweetie I won’t bite😊🌸 if you’ve read this whole thing please send me the word “frog” and some things about you! (I’ll only reply if frog is used in the message)