Age: 33

Pronouns/Gender: Male, he/him

Sexuality: Gay

Status: Married but open relationship

Looking for: Caregiver/Keyholder/Dominant

Role: 100% Submissive (I cannot dom, believe me), DL, AB

Non-Kink Interests: Reading, writing, Tabletop Roleplaying Games, FFXIV, Pokemon, MtG, general nerdy stuff

Kinks: ABDL, BDSM, Chastity, Hypno (Drone?), Bondage, Estim, Spanking, Humiliation, Forced Power Exchange, Sissy stuff, anything that takes the power away from me really.

About me: I'm a somewhat lonely fellow who's been trying to find a way to express this side of my life for ages. I'm in an open relationship with my husband because our sexual interests don't quite align, which is more than fine of course. I'm not *not* looking for a romantic angle, it'd be fine it's just not my main focus. To me, there can be romantic relationships and kink relationships and they're not mutually exclusive. I'll put this here just as a caveat for the ladies - I'm gay, so that means that as far as sex is concerned I'm only really able to do it with masculine anatomy. I have nothing against ladies, of course, and I'd actually be open to a keyholder/caregiver relationship with a lady so long as I'm not expected to describe or perform sexual acts with a lady - I guess maybe a cuck sort of situation would be fine, I think that's the term. As a person I have some depression/anxiety issues I'm working through, just as a heads up, I don't want it to be a surprise. I'm a bit on the pudgier side, but I'm losing weight every day and I think I'm looking quite good, but I suppose it's all personal preference. I'm also rather bad at anal things, they've only been pain for me, but I'm willing to try and expand my horizons here. What I'm primarily looking for is for someone to come and push me to engage with my kinky side, since from a day-to-day level it's often easier not to, and just do other things which makes me sad. I'd really like someone who takes charge and pushes me around a bit, I'm bad at sustaining things on my own. I don't theoretically need someone who's interested in all my kinks at once, I'd be fine with a BDSM Chastity thing, or an ABDL thing, but I'd really love someone who's into chastity, abdl, and hypno all at once, they're oddly my main kinks now. Don't be afraid to reach out if you're not into all three though, I'm open to more friends at the very least. If you've reached the end of this description, bravo I suppose! I'm told I'm quite nice, and if we have a real connection I'd move mountains for you.Limits: Scat (paradoxically, right? I've never tried messing... I guess I'd be open to it, but it's not immediately attractive), stress positions (I have some back issues), signing contracts (I want to keep my personal information private until I trust you), findom (can't squeeze blood from a stone, I don't have much), bloodplaySoft Limits: Anal (again, willing to try and open up with this), Watersports- drinking (it's hot *in theory* for me, never got to try it out IRL)