Hey there! ❤ I've posted in this subreddit before under a different account, but I've decided to start fresh now that I'm back on the search. If I sound familiar and you think you've messaged me before, feel free to message me again!

WHO I AM:

Physically I'm tall, caucasian, dark hair, average/slim weight. I have a successful career that I am very passionate about and can be a bit of a workaholic. I have long-lasting friend groups from various times in my life, and my favorite way to socialize is having hours of deep conversation over a couple of drinks. I also have a dog, lots of art and science hobbies, and love casual gaming/nintendo.

Sexual interests for me include gentle femdom, ABDL/MDLB, dry nursing, and all the cutesy stuff like holding your hand and being the big spoon. 🤭Hard limits for me include anything illegal, anything involving blood and/or serious pain, sissification, public activities and polyamory. I'm not experienced physically, but I'm well-versed in these communities and I doubt anything you want to try will surprise me. If our interests align I'm pretty confident we'll both be happy once we get to this point, haha!

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR:

To me, submission in a relationship boils down to three things:

Truth: You must always tell me the truth. If I ask you a question, I expect an honest answer. It also means if I ask you how your day was, I don't want you to lie and say it was fine. Communication is key and you need to be real about who you are, how you're doing and what you need.

Respect: You will respect my time and efforts, and show patience. You will respect my boundaries and will let me control the speed of the relationship. It is very likely I will not want to rush things, I have to get to know you fully before we do anything intimate. 

Admiration: My biggest flaw is that I will often do everything for others and never ask for anything in return. So you need to be a person who has a natural need to serve and show appreciation in order for this to work. I want your admiration to be unprompted and genuine. I understand everyone has a type, and you deserve to be with someone you think is beautiful both inside and out!

WHAT YOU WILL GET IN RETURN:

Obviously I'm asking for a lot, and it takes a very special person to be honest about who they are right from the beginning. This is what I can promise you in return:

Openness: I have a wide variety of interests and love when people are passionate about things I know nothing about. I encourage you to debate me on how I see the world, and share your history at a pace you're comfortable with. My love comes from a very gentle and curious place, and I will never judge you superficially. You will have a partner who aims to eventually know you better than you know yourself.

Protection: I will be your biggest advocate and always in your corner. You can cry infront of me, talk about your feelings, need to be held and I will never see it as a flaw or hold it against you. I will go out of my way to make sure you feel safe and take notice of the things that make you happy. Someone who feels comfortable enough around me to be vulnerable is both a huge compliment and responsibility, and I take it VERY seriously.

Praise: I love building people up and having them reach their full potential. One of my strengths is seeing the best in everyone- I really do mean the things I say! Praise and rewards are more fun for me than punishments, but I'm also not afraid to call you out on things I disagree with.

PREFERENCES BEFORE YOU MESSAGE ME:

-SEND ME A SFW PIC: It's the best way you're going to keep my interest, because it shows you're serious about being honest and vulnerable. I will send you a pic when I'm ready to move on to video chats or meeting up in person.

-BE IN THE MD/VA/DC AREA: I need to build a good report with you and it's just easier if we hang out in person regularly to see if we click.

-BE IN YOUR MID 20S-EARLY 30S: I would prefer it if you were in the same life-stage as me. You should be looking for a serious relationship and have already made a little bit of progress in your personal ambitions. Please tell me about them, I'd love to know!

Of course, you can still send me a message if you don't meet the above criteria. But you'll have to explain why you think we're still a good match for eachother and how we could make it work.

Can't wait to hear from you! Hope you all find what you're looking for. ❤