Hi all, 25M here. I have been introducing my long-time on-again/off-again hyper-vanilla girlfriend (26F) to this as one of my main fetishes and she’s been so incredible about asking questions and supporting me.

Last night, she was having a bit of an onset of anxiety (diagnosed and medicated) but as with anything it doesn’t completely solve the issue, just helps her manage. I brought up the idea of using ABDL as another anxiety management strategy in addition to helping her learn what she likes and doesn’t like. She, surprisingly, said that she wasn’t opposed, and she even seemed pretty open to the idea.

As a way of making it a bit easier for her to figure out and navigate to hone in on things to try first, I offered to build an ABDL menu with a bunch of different activities, clothing, accessories, etc that are common in this kink.

I’ve got diapers, pacifiers, stuffed animals, bottles, pet names like “Baby Girl” and “Princess,” onesies, and watersports listed so far, but I want to give her a more in-depth list to pick from. Does anyone have anything major that I missed or things that you might have tried and liked?

TL;DR - Looking for a list of ABDL-related activities and objects that I can offer to my girlfriend so she can pick what she wants to try.