My best friend, who knows I'm an AB, made a funny comment just now. He stopped by my apartment to get a jacket he left behind, and we hung out for a bit. I had on sweats and admittedly a very soggy Trest. I wasn't expecting company.

I noticed he kept glancing at my waist, and I said "quit staring at my junk."

He replied with the title.

I told him humbly that it was neither and we both laughed if off for a bit. I just said "you know it's neither of those, dude." He stayed for a little bit longer and before he left he reminded me that, A) we used to live together, and he knows just about everything about me, and B) he once stood up for me when a mutual called me out for following an ABDL account on Instagram.

It doesn't have to be awkward. It can be uncomfortable, but people aren't always out to shame ABDLs. I just wanna shout out the cool vanilla people out there, and my homie for making me laugh.