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Hard realities of 24/7
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Guess I need to explain 24/7. 24 hours a day. 7 days a week. 365 days a year. Men's every hour of every day of every year non stop. Not when I feel like it. No breaks or pauses. That is the definition for this post of 24/7

I constantly see people playing around with the idea of doing a 24/7 life style. Had a conversation with someone about it in private. I believe I should go ahead and just post it for everyone.

There are 4 key hard parts that must be worked through and considered before doing 24/7 ab or dl. I will separate them because they are 2 different lifestyles. I will also be ordering these from least problematic to most problematic. The for major topics or problems with the 24/7 life style are as follows, finances, relationship, longevity, sacrifice. These are also listed in order of easiest to deal with to most difficult.

Finances. When it comes to the dl part of things, it is pritty straight forward. You need money to buy diapers/briefs. Even for just cheap pull up style briefs they can get expensive. The price only goes up from there. Just for urin you should plan on between 3 to 5 diapers a day. If you put bowel into that as well. Add at least one more per day. Common package has what 22 in it. Costs about 20 dollars. It all starts to add up. That is just for the diapers them selves. That doesn't include the wipes or any creams that you will need for hygienic purposes. Then there is the added medical bills. Wearing 24/7 will cause additional medical problems. Brining this into a relation ship means you already have a net negative income. So that is less money spent in the future. I know there are those of you that say insurance should just pay. I don't agree with this thought process. You want others to pay for your pleasure. I. What way is that acceptable and fair when you maid the choice. Luckily being a dl there is little chance of it effecting your income chances.

Now finances when it comes to ab. I know there will very. How ever we are talking 24/7. We already went over the diaper pricing so no need to go there. How ever then there are all the specialty items now. This will depend upon your age of course. How ever specialty items don't come cheap. As an ab will you be able to work? So you are now not brining any money to the table. Will you be able to care for yourself? If not that means help will need to be hired. Will you other be able to work with you. What u foreseen medical problems will pop up from the life style. These all play into it. Someone has to pay for all of these things. The supplies. Now I know money is fleeting and can be worked around. Thus the reason it is the first and least problematic of the issues.

Relationships is the second problem. When it comes to dl, well your other will more than likely become wary of it. The financial burden of it can also way upon a relationship. As far as other relationships,not much will change. People wear diapers all the time because they have no choice. So there really isn't a problem.

When it comes to ab though it is another story. Starting with your other, how do you take care of them in return. Taking care of someone with a child's mind is very taxing upon a person. Care givers give so much, yet they receive very little in return. Everyone has their needs that need to be filled. If you are 24/7 an ab then you can't give much back. Your other will more than likely need to seek else where to fill those needs. Then when it comes to family or even friends it gets tougher. These are people that choose to stick around. Going full dive into the ab life style will probably force most people away. Going out into society is also very problematic. You should never force someone else to accept and see you beyond normal if possible. You might point out people with disabilities. How ever they don't have the choice. Society at large deals with it. Though there are lines that shouldn't be crossed there as well. When you do the 24/7 ab you can not keep up relationships well. They are extremely one sided.

Longevity. When it comes to dl there isn't a lotto consider. Again people have to do this anyway because they have no choice. How ever those of us that are choosing it will probably loose the flair for it after not to long. Diapers will just turn into underwear with a perk. The longer you wear them the more likely you will not have a choice about reversing.

When it comes to ab though. It is another story. Line the dl the longer you act like an ab the more stuck in it you become. You will over time restrict your mind and body from functioning properly. Stop walking for long enough and you no longer have the balance to. Restrict your diet to certain foods and you are no longer able to process others. Then there is growing older. Not just you but even your caregiver. What happened if you are stuck as an ab and they die. Who cares for you at that point. The system, a rotating door of people who may or may not care for you. Even if your cg doesn't die, they will get to the point they can't care for you. You may get to the point you can no ling move. 24/7 implies 24/7/365. So every day period. This does not mean breaks. The longevity of a lifestyle like this is so hard to actually fathom.

So say you are able to find the money. Yah your ritch. You have a cg that will take care of you and you are alright with them getting what they need else where. You have considered the longevity of it all. Now you have to sacrifice. As a dl you sacrifice the money, time it takes to change. No big deal. As an ab though, you know sacrifice everything else you could have accomplished. You sacrifice your cg future as well. You sacrifice everyone you might have touched. All your greatness you may have achieved is now restricted. Yes I know it slowly restricts anyway. How ever as an ab it is restricted terribly. This means you have also sacrificed other people's options as well. The weight and measure that you sacrifice is huge. One could not measure it accurately.

At the end of the day these are the truths of 24/7. You may be able to reason your way through every one of these. That is fine. You might be the exception to all the above. How ever everything still applies. My recommendation is to do something as much as 2 times a week or as little as 1 time a month. When you are deprived of your need you crave it all the time. Once you start filling that need, your craving of it will go down. Hopefully I have left everyone with something to think about.

Apologies for spelling it random words. Doing this from my phone at work. Auto correct can be a bother at the best of times.

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